Is it normal to fall for guys with girlfriends?

this guy i've been talking to .. we got together one night, and I kinda started to fall for him. then after we got together, i started to fall for him more; long story short, he's been hardcore leading me on, but he has a girlfriend.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    When you find out a guy has a girlfriend, draw an imaginary X on his face with permanent marker... or maybe semi-permanent because they could break up. But anyways, you're kind of asking for it if you hang out with him knowing he has a girlfriend. And that could start unwanted drama between you and his chic.

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  • NotThatInnocent

    Girl if he wants to treat you like a game you should show him how it's played

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  • suckonthis9

    Why would you want to be in love with, or become a victim of, a male reminiscent of Guy Fawkes, who is friends with a pre-adolescent of either sex?

    "Kinda", is not a word. 'Kind', is a word.

    It's kind of nice for an adolescent male, having a female friend.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Stay away from this guy.

    If you bump uglies with him you'll be known as a super bitch.

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  • RoseIsabella

    If you knew about his girlfriend from the start then you're normal for a SKANK!

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  • DandyElfman

    Why does he have multiple chicks? You really want that?

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  • Pwnfacertwn

    It makes sense to fall for someone who is already in a committed relationship if for no other reason than the fact that someone else has. That is to say, attractive fish tend to get caught.

    At the same time, if someone in a committed relationship cheats on his girlfriend with you, what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you with someone else if you were his girlfriend?

    Be friendly, keep your distance and focus on yourself. If he's available in the future and you're still interested, great. Don't miss out on other potential (and potentially better) opportunities in the meantime.

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  • Ldizzy1234

    This happens to me sometimes as well. But once I find out that they have a gf, I usually just tell myself that they're off limits, eventually leading me to move on.

    Just be honest about it. Nobody wants to get caught up in drama like that.

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  • purplegirl22

    It's normal to want things you can never have. But for your own sake don't let him control you and lead you on.

    When in reality, you are the one being played if you allow him to do so.

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  • starie

    It's normal in my opinion because people like to want what they can't have. This doesn't mean it's ok though. It obviously isn't. Even if he's the one leading you on, you have a choice to not fall for it.

    Also, why would you be interested in a person who'd do what he is doing to his own girlfriend? If he's capable of doing that to her then he is most definitly capable of doing that to you.

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  • Holzman67

    Be careful you'll turn into Glenn close from fatal attraction the way you're going

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