Is it normal to evaluate every girl i meet for sexual desirability

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I was sitting in the local enclosed shopping mall, a while back. My wife had already exhausted me with her shopping so I sat down and watched the passing crowd.

My wife suddenly appeared out of nowhere and said, "I've been watching you, you dog..." her favorite appellation in this situation, "...and you have been watching all the girls walk by and, not only that, you haven't missed a single one!"

I replied with my normal eloquence in these situations, "But, but, but, but...," as it began to dawn on me that I do constantly check out every woman I find halfway attractive, and that includes a lot of women! I check for weight, tutu's, bippity bops, that luscious curved hourglass outline, and facial beauty; all the important physical attributes, even up to and including seducibility not to mention the softness of their lips (that are used for talking). And the parts that I can't see and have to imagine.

Is it normal to mentally undress every woman between 18 and 80 that you see, and to imagine what they would be like in bed? Or am I a pervert with a libido the size of Manhattan?

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  • howaminotmyself
    11 years ago

    I don't go to malls very often but when I do I rarely see people worth mentally undressing.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    18-35 yes; 18-80 no.

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  • Boobylover
    10 years ago

    18 to 80?

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    • kinklu
      10 years ago

      That may well be pushing the envelope but I'll never forget the sixty-something woman I saw at my local gym. I'd wrestle with her in a heartbeat.

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  • StarTeddy
    10 years ago

    I just commented to say that I really like the way this question was written. It has a nice narrative and expression.

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  • Foreverdecay
    11 years ago

    Its normal to check out people. But when you are married and are thinking about sex with other women, youre a perv...

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    • kinklu
      11 years ago

      Is that you, Mary? That's what my wife calls me, a perv!

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  • LastknownJohn
    11 years ago

    It is normal to think about women you see and think about them naked

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    For men, this is normal to varying degrees, based on testosterone levels. I envy you, you seem to have very high testosterone.

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    • kinklu
      11 years ago

      Well, at least I have that. I sure don't have a lot of money!

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  • plum6
    11 years ago

    For a guy this is completely normal. Even though I am in a long-term relationship myself I cannot help checking out other women and judging them on their appearance. My gf also notices but doesn't consider it a problem at all, it's just male instinct. So just keep on doing what you have been doing and enjoy it.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    No.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    I'm a woman and I would say that it's normal even if I don't think that you mentally undress ALL women. You do this when you have nothing else to do. And why I say this is normal is because sometimes I do the same. I watch men and wonder how they would be in bed. I am in a stable relationship and I would not cheat but I still do this sometimes. I saw my boyfriend do it once and when I asked why he did this he told me that it was a reflex. Sometimes when I see a woman I tell him to look at that butt or look at those boobs.

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    • kinklu
      11 years ago

      It says in the big book - somebody's big book, anyway - 'What's fair for the goose is fair for the gander'. It's alright to take a gander at someone's booty. I know for a fact that women do it too if they're honest. You appear to be honest.

      I don't mentally undress ALL women; just the healthy women between 18 and 80 years of age.

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    I can't because I'm always on the can...12 hrs a day on the friggin can

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