Is it normal to escape reality?

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hey friends,
I landed in this site quite accidently.. but i feel i have a story tooo... first thing is my confusion it self... i am a bipolar person and my moods swing badly at times giving me some ok days in between.. i have this habbit of escaping reality.. ii dont know if its common .. so tell me if its normal! I hate the responsibilities of being a mother and wife i suppose.. i am diabetic also following avery bad diet.. To be true i have a very supporting husband and an adorable kid.. but i usually prefer to avoid the responsibility they gave me.. what i do insted? i chat in mobile and get in to unhealthy relations..is it really normal? does any one do that?

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  • karmasAbich
    12 years ago

    I smoke to escape reality.
    If somethings missing from your life find that thing to make up for it. Whether its a healthy habbit you pick up is up to you.gain control of your life!! :)

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    a bipolar high is thinking a bad idea is a good idea, so you should be extra careful about relationships. that being said, all mothers and wives get tired of the responsibilities sometimes. that's normal. but you have to push yourself to be a good spouse and mother. after all, how marketable is a single mother with a mental illness?

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  • confused007
    14 years ago

    thank you so much for ur comments and time.. i got a good idea there@imjustme.. probably if i start ACTING i may eventualy succeed in being a good mother and wife.. I will do that.. i think i ve been trying that all these years after marriage..but never got enough motivation to stick on to it..i start very determined , i hide my mobile,spend more time with family but then eventually i gets tired and starts everything over again..a good news .. i have started acting from yesterday!!

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  • imjustme
    14 years ago

    well i landed here accidentally too. unhealthy relationships are not good, so try to stop that.

    i am not a mother but i act like one i do not like big responsibilites but ill take them. people say you do crazy things for the ones you love right? well if we have someone we love we will do the weirdest things for them, even start acting like a mother and wife

    i wish you luck with whatever happens!

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    No, I don't think it's normal to seek out "unhealthy relations" when you have a family that loves you. I think that could be a condition of your disorder.

    Improving your diet could also help your symptoms from being bipolar, as well as your diabetes.

    I think it's normal to become tired of your role as mother and wife, it happens to most women at some point, but most people have the maturity and self-control to eventually dismiss those selfish thoughts and take responsibility for themselves and the life they have chosen.

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