Is it normal to eat your own cum?

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To start off, I have an online friend that I get pretty sexual with. We're both guys, but I'm not gay (hence the name). Anyway, we were doing one of our usual sessions together when he basically told me to eat my own cum. Since I'm usually the more submissive one in these sessions, he's always trying to get me to do humiliating things in exchange for being able to cum with him and that's basically what this was. I was really horny at the time after edging with him so long, so I had no problem saying yes to him. The problem came when I actually did cum. The idea of eating my own semen wasn't hot at all anymore. It actually started making me feel uncomfortable. But, I made a promise to him so I tried to not think about it while I quickly lapped up and swallowed the load. He was happy enough with me to give a virtual headpat and that kind of made me happy too, but after he both signed off I started realizing how disgusting what I did really was. Like, what would my parents think if they knew I ate my own sperm? They don't know even that I'm basically erotic roleplaying as a sub with people online, but now I have to also live with the fact that I went as far as eating my own cum. I feel like I might just be overthinking this and that eating your own cum isn't as bad as I'm making it out to be, but I've got this feeling in the pit of my stomach and I don't know how to deal with it. I really enjoy erping but it always makes me feel a little sick afterward. This is probably the worst I've felt yet.

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  • Track0011
    5 years ago

    So, you are not gay, but you masturbate and get turned on while doing gay sex roleplay with a guy

    What's the reasoning here, mate?

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    Eating your own cum is normal.

    Being gay or bi is also normal. There is no point in denying it.

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  • curious-bunny
    5 years ago

    Its perfectly normal, its also quite healthy.

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    What you experienced - being willing to do it before orgasm, but not so keen after the event - is very common and totally normal.

    I have wondered if this might not be an evolutionary thing. If our male ancestors loved the taste of their own spunk, they would have spent all their time whacking off and slurping it up themselves, rather than constantly trying to figure out how they could release it into a vagina.

    I'm extremely uncomfortable with the idea that swallowing semen is humiliating and disgusting, because that means semen is seen as a foul, unclean substance, and it turns fellatio into a act of degradation and submission. That's never been how I've seen fellatio, and it's never been the dynamic at work when women have sucked me off, just as I've never considered it degrading to lick a woman's pussy.

    If a guy thinks consuming his own semen is revolting, then it seems to me that says a lot about his views on sex and his own body, and none of it is positive. If a guy wants someone else to suck him off mainly because he considers that degrading, then that indicates he considers his own penis unclean and disgusting.

    Semen is a non-waste product substance produced by your own body, and consuming it is no more disgusting than swallowing your own saliva or sniffing to clear your nose and swallowing the snot. Because it is produced by the sexual organs and the screwed-up, sex-negative delusions of ancient religious nuts are deeply embedded in our culture, doing anything with semen other than putting it in a vagina is considered taboo, but that, like many taboos, has no rational, logical basis.

    As for what your parents might think about this, why the hell do you give a damn? Their sex life - if any - is none of your business, and what you do with your own body and the fantasies you play in your own head are none of their fucking business. As your parents, they might have reasonable grounds to be concerned about your welfare if you were going out and hanging with dubious characters in shady places IRL, but that's not what you're doing.

    In one sense, I do think you're over-analysing this. However, maybe what's really going on is that you're starting to wonder if the messages you've got about sex and your body from the time you were small might just be a load of sex-negative, irrational, oppressive crap. Paradigm shifts - learning to see the world in a completely different way - are rarely comfortable, particularly when the established pattern has been sinking its claws into you since you were an infant.

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork
    5 years ago

    It's a liquid, not a solid. You drink it... not eat, but drink. And, yes... it's normal, and such a turn on when I see a guy drink his own cum!

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