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Recently, i have weird dreams about me and my friend. And the most common of those is that we were like....dating! So is there any chance I like her? Oh, there's one thing i forgot to mention: My BFF is bisexual, will that makes me a bi, because i still like boys
| You are not bisexual | 6 | |
| You're bisexual, duh | 7 | |
| Have different opinion, please do comment to let me know | 2 | |
| It's just a normal dream | 27 |
Well, unless you are writing in your sleep; you are more than just dreaming about it. It depends on how old you are. Many, adventurous young adults, "dip their toes" into so-called forbidden sex. It mostly happens in a college setting. No doubt, a certain amount of recreational refreshment is involved.
Most women see other women as sexier than men. Only some men are the exception to the rule.
Sexual experiences are not usually elastic. You don't snap back to being 100% hetero afterwards. Sexual experiences are expansive. Maybe you end up 5 to 15% Bi. Maybe you become a lesbian who likes the occasional cock.
Maybe you decide to try experimenting with your Bi BFF, become uncomfortable and afterwards can't be friends any more because you just are too freaked out.
Thanks a bunch! But it's just a dream, we're not actually dating or something like that. And i'm an adolescent, IIN to dream like that in my age? :s
Adolescence is one of the least understood areas of psychology. I have read that family counseling professionals find working with an adolescent the most taxing on their skills. This is because an adolescent can be so invested (passionate) in how they feel at any given time and yet they and their feelings are changing so quickly as they mature. We as adults see their thinking and behavior sometimes as shortsighted but we only know this from our on experience as an adolescent.
Adolescence is saying farewell to the comforts of childhood and journeying into adulthood, including responsibility. Hormones are what drives both the body and the mind into adulthood.
One thing I thought of after my first post was that researchers have come to understand that REM sleep (Dream sleep) is when the mind is flushing toxins of ordinary brain function from the brain itself. A lot of neurons are being stimulated. Probably not in any particular order relevant to one's thinking. Obviously neurons that have been busy require upkeep.
This stimulation of neurons, presents your sleeping mind with a kaleidoscope of bits and pieces of memories from your waking life. So in essence your brain is weaving a tapestry (dreams) from disparate bits of information and filling in the gaps between these pieces to make sense of the stimulation. Our eyes and brain do this even in waking life. For instance you could read and understand most of what I have written, even if the vowels in the middle of the words were missing.
So, Yeah one of the other posts was short & simple. Dreams are for the most part NOT relevant to you waking life. But my sister-in-law finds great fun in trying to attach meaning to dreams.
I have had romantic dreams about my friends; I've often wondered if I really am bisexual but I realized that I'm not all that interested in girls that way. Your dreams are just dreams. Having one dream or tons of dreams about a girl doesn't necessarily mean you're actually attracted to girls.
who knows, it's a dream. do you question all of your dreams? I don't question the dream I had about eating my own hands, or the dream I had about being sent back to preschool. Why question the dream about dating my friend? Dreams are weird. Don't overthink it.