Is it normal to dream about a guy i never dated all the time?

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I really liked this guy from 10th grade until I was a freshman in college. He didn't even know I liked him, but I found out when I graduated that he said if he'd know I liked him he totally would have dated me. I graduated from college in May, got married in October, am very happy with my husband, but still dream about my crush all the time. Ugh. I hate it. Is this normal?

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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    You have to stop thinking about what could have been and focus on what you have! Who says you would have even been happy dating that other guy? You're normal but I honestly don't know what to tell you as far as stopping these nagging dreams you're having. Just focus on your husband now and tell yourself that it's not a bad thing that you never got to be with your crush. Chances are the dream is far greater than the reality would have been.

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    • whyamisoparanoid
      14 years ago

      I do tell myself that all the time and I know and BELIEVE it! I just wish my subconscious knew it too. Thanks Jen : )

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    • insognity
      14 years ago

      above speaks the truth ... don't dwell on dreams and don't give up what you have now for what you could have. time to let go ... if it was meant to be it would have been

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