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I never get my way in my marriage and I am feeling bored too. After only being married less than 3 years, is it normal to have second thoughts about it way too late?
Time to move on. If you are that miserable, which it sounds like you are, why stay and continue to be miserable. If you really don't think it can get better... Then go. If there is a chance for things to improve, and you ARE willing to try... Then stay. It is that simple.
Dappled's got it. Talk those problems out, and give it some more thought.
"I never get my way" is a horrible feeling to have in a marriage. Find new words to describe your feelings and maybe talk to a marriage counselor about it. You are navigating life with another person, you're bound to hit a bump or two, don't let it throw you.
I can't tell you much about marriage because I don't know very much about it but what impressed me about your post is that you got straight to the nub of the problem. You're under no illusion about what you think is wrong. Although it sounds negative in general, identifying problems is a really positive step.
Before you have second thoughts about your marriage, spend as much time as you can thinking about what can be done (by both partners) to resolve the problems. With tweaking, the marriage might be perfectly viable. I think people should only draw the veil on a marriage once it's obvious it just won't work and everything has been tried.