Is it normal to do this for my girlfriend whom i love?

So I have this girlfriend and she is like my whole entire world. I love her so much and I'm positive that she is the one. But I'll do little thing for her that she likes. For example I'll write her really long sappy love letters for her to read. I do everything she asks and put her above my friends. Then I'll do things like hold her hand everywhere we go and tell her sweet things all the time and try to make her feel perfect.. I don't see anything wrong with trying to make her happy but my friends are all like, "Dude your so whipped and such a loser." So is it normal to do these things or are my friends just being jerks?

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  • InsertBlankHere

    Your friends are just trying to act macho. They're probably indoctrinated with the stereotypical male model, thinking that men do not show affection, and only lust after women. Maybe they're jealous of what you have. Who knows. Truth is, their relationships are probably going to fail, where yours will succeed.

    Just be sure that you're acting how you truly feel, and not just acting the way that you think she wants you to act.

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  • TyLee

    You are the most amazing guy ever!!!! You are so perfect and you will have a happy life cause guess what.... Girls do not put up with being treated like shit forever and all your friends are going to be cheated on many times and do nothing but fight or get dumped and be caught in this miserable cycle forever and finally at 50 years old realize that you are the best! They should have been like you but now it's too late. They wasted their lives being assholes. Now they can die miserable when you had the best life ever!!!!! Sorry but seriously I think you are awesome and I wish more guys could be like you!

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  • jenjen06

    She's a lucky girl and your friends are just douches :/

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  • Your normal and your friends are jerks. Typical young boy behavior; you're a real man.

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  • Oli

    Aww, that's sweet. Yeah, it's normal.

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  • This is sweet, brad:) hahaha

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  • asianninja

    Your friends are being jerks. Dont care what they think , think about YOU and YOUR thoughts about this girl you love so much. If she's not forcing you to put her above ur frends, and ur doing all of this stuff for her even when she never asked you to then its not normal at all. Its beyond normal!! Its great! AMAZING!! Your every girl's dreamguy

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  • calavary

    Of course it is normal! You love her don't you? If you really live her you wouldn't care what your friends think! Do they have girlfriends, if they don't have they ever had like a real relationship because it could just be them jealous! If you love her hat much you shouldn't care what they say!

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  • Tisgranum

    If love is what she's looking for, she will want her man to be happy. It's all fine and dandy to do things for your girlfriend but you have to think about yourself to.

    Many women call that kind of behavior a doormat or such thing. It doesn't have to be all about her. In a sense, thinking about yourself can be about her as well as she may enjoy making you happy just as much as you enjoy making her happy. And then, if she doesn't plan on working to make you happy at all; well who would want that?

    Give both of you a favor and think of yourself a little.

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  • IPurr4U

    Barf.

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  • TheIntellect

    It IS normal. Unfortunately the things you do for her i.e. if you hang out with her all the time, make you whipped. Your friends are jerks but they're also right.

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  • darren3

    Your whooped and eventually she'll do what all girls do. Leave you for a guy who treats her like shit.

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    • noid

      All girls? Um no.

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