Is it normal to do things you don't really feel when drunk?

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Basically I was with my boyfriend and a group of friends and my boyfriend stayed sober so he could be my driver and I could get drunk with my friends...well I took so many shots that I blacked out for a few minutes and when I came to it, everyone was leaving and my boyfriend was pissed at me...apparently, I had tried to kiss another guy friends neck when he was going in for a hug. I have never cheated on anyone in my life and I'm not interested in this guy at all. My stupid subconscious drunk self almost ruined our relationship and I did it in front of my bf which is messed up!! Now my boyfriend doesn't trust me at all...I felt so guilty and shady. If I did that does that mean I have feelings for the other guy that I tried to kiss?? I don't jnderstand why I would do something like that. I used to never understand the whole drunk excuse for people...but now I'm in that position. It's a weird position to be in because saying you were drunk can't be an excuse. I can usually drink a lot and not black out which was even weirder. I seriously didn't know I even did that...

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Ya think? Wonder why everyone warns that alcohol reduces inhibitions and can lead to an increase in sexual behavior? Maybe you should pay attention when someone tells you this stuff.

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  • cliffMFclavin
    9 years ago

    don't drink so much. and don't do what i did. one time i drank about six shots of whiskey (i was pretty heavily into drinking back then so this was a fairly normal amount) and happened to black out and drink the rest of the bottle (it was a fifth). i freaked out on my boyfriend and parents and told a sexual story from when i was 14 like it was nothing. my mom asked me about it the next day. it was embarrassing and unnecessary and you really don't need that in your life. you've found your warning sign, now take it. drink half as much as you think you need. be scared about what could happen if you drink too much because those risks are real. the more you drink and the more often, the likelier this stuff is to happen.

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  • Meshasemaj
    9 years ago

    If your with your boyfriend, drinking ect, and he's okay with it, that's great, just don't drink so much that you can't control the situation, no I don't think that you,trying to kiss someone's neck means that you like the person, you might just be extra friendly, when intoxicated, like me, lol I had to learn my drinking limit early on, still learning actually

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