Is it normal to do stuff with your brother when you're little?

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So when I was seven my brother, (9 years old), asked me if I would let him put his penis in my mouth because he wanted to know why are oldest brother, (who was 17 at the that time), liked it. I told him no because it sounded really gross and so he asked if we could kiss and i said i agreed to it b/c i was curious too.

I understand that the first part may be somewhat normal for children to do if it hadn't been that something similar happened when I was 11. My brother and I played some game where the loser had to kiss the other person (his idea). Also when i was eleven, his friends invited me to play spin the bottle with all of them and my brother. When my brother spinned it landed on me. He convinced me to go along with it so we sat in the closet for a little and than he started touching me and asking if it felt good. It felt strange but somewhat pleasant and exciting. I was uncomfortable but didn't stop him because I was afraid he'd get upset. Nothing similar has happened since.

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    I have no idea what to tell you. I am male and have a younger brother, so never had that situation. I assume it was curiosity that made those situations come into action and not an attraction to one another. Like you stated, nothing like this has ever happened again so you are not weird, at least in my book.

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  • chuy
    5 years ago

    This went a little overboard, big age gap and the older boys took advantage of you.

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  • Cutegirl80
    10 years ago

    My brother and I did the same. We were much younger though. To this day I'm sexually attracted to him and want him so bad

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    It sounds really pretty normal to me, but I have to ask about the first sentence...

    ...was your 17 year old brother putting his penis in your 9 year old brother's mouth? If so, that's NOT normal and needs to be addressed. There's a difference between normal exploration/curiosity and child molestation. That difference is usually 4 years.

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    • cokopoof
      10 years ago

      I'm pretty sure they weren't doing that. :/

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Read it. That's what it says.

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