Is it normal to do "stuff" with my best friend?

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Both my best friend and I have commitment issues, want to be in relationships, but it just hasn't worked out with anyone. We both care for each other, although we don't have any romantic feelings. One night about two months ago we both had a bit too much to drink and started making out and one thing led to another. We talked about it afterward, were able to laugh, but agreed it shouldn't happen again. But since then we've hooked up three times, but nothings changed with our friendship.

I'm not really sure what to do. I don't mind how things are, it's just confusing.

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    You are friends with benefits. That's fine, just don't it too often. Like one a month in a closet, maybe.

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    • xtreemgamer129
      9 years ago

      I call it "fuck buddies", but yeah. The post above. ^

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  • GreyWulfen
    9 years ago

    Sounds fine to me.

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  • Ohmyrandomness
    9 years ago

    Friends with benefits = best friendship ever.

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  • davesumba
    9 years ago

    Friends have sex with friends all the time, it's quite common. There's really nothing to read into, sex is sex.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    "the bad thing...that's the bad thing"

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    End it yo.

    Sex with friends is cool but eventually if it goes on too long it ruins the friendship.

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  • OrangeApples.
    9 years ago

    Bitch

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Why?

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    • anti-hero
      9 years ago

      Cunt

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      • OrangeApples.
        9 years ago

        Wanker.

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        • anti-hero
          9 years ago

          Tosser.

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      • handsignals
        9 years ago

        strumpet

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        • anti-hero
          9 years ago

          Or maybe op deleted on other post?

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          • handsignals
            9 years ago

            There's a glitch in the matrix

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