Is it normal to do somthing you know would hurt your spouse after fite

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my boyfriend and i got into a huge fight last night, because i was partly buzzed i dnt remember all of it, sucks but this happens alot. i know it had to do with a previous argument with porn, them it led to a discussion i had had saying i feel different latley(pregnant signs) andi think i was overreaction to a stomach pain.anyway we fought yelled, i left home..later to find he left out! this morning i called (i know im obsessed) and blamed everything on myself.still he was mad and hurtful. come to learn he also went out to the local bar we agreed was not to be attended eeveer again! he hurt me and lied again.why do i feel soo sad and lost inside. hes my world.why doesnt he realize how he hurts me. guess like a dummy ill cry and pleed again latef..god i love him. ive never swallowed my pride so quickly without a second thought. he knows hes got me and ill be there rightt nextdoor whenever.and its sad but trrue. occupying myself only works for so long..until i realize i still miss him..praying hes not mad stil

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  • gillam1
    7 years ago

    Sounds like there's a lot of selfishness in this relationship. A level of childishness.
    I challenge you to have a discussion where you don't make yourself the center of attention(IOW - Don't use the 'what about me?')
    If he wants to go to the local bar, let him. he's responsible for his own actions. If there's someone there you don't want him to see, he should be responsible for his own actions.
    There shouldn't be any restrictions on who can go where. It's all about respecting one another.
    [ie: Out of respect for my wife, I don't go to the stripclub]
    Not that she said, I can't. I just knowshe's not comfortable with it.
    They key is...let them be who they are and don't try to have control of their actions. Respect one another and put your insecurities away. This action should be mutual on both sides.

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    You need a counsellor

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Why don't you two stop fighting before one of you gets so sick of it, you'll dump the other?

    You are supposed to be with someone who makes you happy!!
    The day they don't make you laugh is the day you dump them!!

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