Is it normal to do something like this?

So, I like this guy A LOT, and he comes to our friend hangouts sometimes. There’s a game we like to play, and for parts of it everyone has their eyes closed except for one person.

When I’m the only person with my eyes open, I take the opportunity to look at his crotch while also continuing to play the game.

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Comments ( 35 )
  • Soph1931

    Just wait until the day where someone peeks and catches you doin that shit

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    • Actually, one time I almost got caught!

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  • PleaseTalkToMe

    I bet you're a dude

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    • I’m a dudette.

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  • Iszzy123

    Just tell him you want to smash real quick, might work out might not live life

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    • Thanks, but I wouldn’t tell him that. What do you mean by “might not live life”?

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      • Iszzy123

        I meant it might work out it might not work , you should live life

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  • momwatcher69

    I don't think it's creepy.... you're just curious about his "package". Since you already "like him a LOT", as you say, flirt with him, (a little bit), and let him know you're interested.... See if he picks up, on your clues.

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    • Thank you, I’m glad you don’t think it’s creepy. He knows about my crush on him, and I would flirt with him, but I don’t really know how to flirt.

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  • bigbudchonga

    LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL, keep it up girl! I think it's risky though, I wouldn't be surprised if some people were just squinting and not fully closing their eyes.

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    • Thanks! If some people were just squinting, it would mess up the game, and everyone I’ve played with so far has really enjoyed the game, so I doubt they’d do that.

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  • Normal, though it sounds like something I would've done at 11.

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    • Thanks! When you said it sounds like something you would’ve done at 11, were you talking about the game or checking someone out like that?

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      • Checking someone out like that.

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  • Why don’t you just offer to give him a blowjob?

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    • He’s a platonic friend. Do you think it would be a good idea to ask him?

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      • Yes. Say “Good day *his name*, it would be my utmost honor to perform oral sex on you at a time of your convenience. Would you be open to accepting this proposal?”

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        • Thanks for the advice! As his friend, I don’t think I’d ever ask him though.

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  • Bass

    It all depends on if your male or female and how old you are. Sounds like a game that middle schoolers or younger play.

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    • What do you mean by “if your male or female”?

      Do you mean this by saying either males or females are more likely to check out someone they like in a situation like this?

      Or do you mean that females are more likely to check out a guy’s crotch?

      Or did you mean something else, maybe?

      In the post, I didn’t mean to limit “something like this” to just specifically looking at a guy’s crotch. It could involve any one checking someone out in a sexual way when they get a good chance.

      By the way I’m a female in my 20’s.

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      • PleaseTalkToMe

        Na you're troll or a 50 year old dude I bet ya

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        • Nope nope, I’m being totally honest.

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  • palehorse

    Possibly going against the grain here, but that's a little creepy.

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    • I thought someone would think something like that, but I don’t feel like it’s hurting anyone at least.

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  • Clunk42

    One Night Ultimate Werewolf?

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    • palehorse

      We always called it Mafia. I always thought it was just called Werewolf in Chinese... the more you know.

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      • Clunk42

        One Night Ultimate Werewolf is a card game by Bezier Games.

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    • RoseIsabella

      I've never heard of it.

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    • Oh my god! How’d you know?

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      • Clunk42

        I've played it before. It's a fun game.

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        • Grunewald

          Mafia?

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          • Clunk42

            one Night Ultimate Werewolf is a card game by bezier games.

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        • Yeah, it is.

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  • dimwitted

    There's no other opportunity for you to look?

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    • That’s the only opportunity when everyone else has their eyes closed.

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