Is it normal to disslike anal sex... a lot!!!!

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My fiance has an obsession with Greek style. He loves it. I hate it. The feeling is invasive on a emotional level and horrible on every other level- i could describe but i will spare u. He took my butt virginity and now i want it back. The only thing is when i let him do it... he is more into it and connected then any other position or form of sex imaginable. Is there anyway to make it better or to overcome the hatred?? And is it normal??

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    If it's uncomfortable then he is doing it wrong.

    Make him use plenty of lube. And go slow at first.

    But if it really bothers you that much then don't do it.

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  • Echoes
    13 years ago

    I say don't do anything in bed that you don't like.

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  • jessicia16
    13 years ago

    think o fit like a punishment .... try thinking of that kinda fantacy .. rather than focus on how painful it is ... the first time my bf tried that to me it was outdoors and i cried ... it really felt WAY worse than pain .... anyway maybe your like me in that and its virtually imposible to just "enjoy" naturally ..... i started to like it when my bf told me he's disaplyning me or something like that ... kinda dirty talk ,,, and after i rubbed myself while he did it and had a HUGE orgasim ,,, way bigger than any normal kinda .... now i actually love it and ask him to do that haha ,,, but its all in the mind ,,, if you have some kinda fantacy like being punished or what ever than try to work it into that and also masterbate yourself while he does that ,,, if it works you will be shocked at how huge the orgasm is ,,, like it will knock you out! :):):) well almost ^___~

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime
    13 years ago

    cant NOT came

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime
    13 years ago

    he likes it better because its tighter. does he have a small willie that he came feel it in your poon? that could be why you dont like it because it would probably feel like a pencil up there. get him a penis pump and say that he can do you up the pooper if he makes himself bigger.
    but if you hate it that much then dont do it because you will resent him for the rest of your life every time you let him do it. sex is supposed to be pleasurable for both people, not just one.

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