Is it normal to dislike your own mom

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I'm 20 and I honestly can't stand my own mom if she comes in my room it annoys me the way she talks the way she is I just cannot stand her! I feel really bad because she's my mom but I know that if she wasn't as a person I'd want nothing to do with her! She hasn't done anything bad but honestly the sound of her voice just pisses me off n I'm constantly shouting and arguin with her which makes me feel horrible but I just get this rage inside me n it just comes out! I don't know what's wrong with me I honestly feel like when I move out I won't ever speak to her again

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Based on 35 votes (23 yes)
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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Move out and be a grown up?

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    • Dreimy18
      7 years ago

      Why wont you leave the house and live somewhere else?

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  • Hyakume
    7 years ago

    Get a job and move out; problem solved. If you aren't paying the rent tho, you should honestly stop giving her a hard time. Not trying to nail you either, am basically in your same situation. Am working and earning money until I can move out; my situation is more of a need for independence though. We are also the same age so yhea, this is the best solution you are going to get.

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  • Antonio2017
    7 years ago

    Talk to your mum nicely,she has deprivation of sweet words from males

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  • HATIMTAI
    7 years ago

    You should not think like that about your mom dear. After all she is the only person in the whole planet who loves you selfishlessly.
    She might sometimes shout or scold on you but it's for your betterment only.

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    • 1nger
      7 years ago

      That's really ignorant and damaging to say to someone.

      Maybe you grew up with a woman who did indeed love you selflessly like that, someone who wanted the best for you and put thought into preparing you for succeeding in life... Lucky you, I'm happy for you and I hope you appreciate it, but we didn't all get lucky like that.
      Some of us had mothers (and I use this term only in the biological sense) who were narcissistic, selfish and malicious, physically and verbally abuse, and emotionally degrading. Sure, this is often the result of themselves having psychological problems and perhaps their own history of abuse and neglect, but that makes zero difference in the amount of hurt and suffering they are now causing another innocent human being, and talking to that person like that (basically denying that what they are experiencing can be real, or even blaming them for it) is so NOT COOL.

      OP don't blame yourself, these kinds of feelings are much more common than most people think, and they usually have their root in abuse/neglect, it's not because anything is wrong with you. It sounds like you would benefit from getting away from that place and making your own life. Also get some therapy if you can.

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      • HATIMTAI
        7 years ago

        Okay I got your point now dear

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  • MyDadCalledMeAFreak
    7 years ago

    Move out. Avoid her if you can. Moms are annoying by nature. Ugh. I wish you well.

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