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I'm a fat girl in a skinny family. It sux. There is no value judgment on ugly but if ur fat u have no self control. I hate being ugly and fat. People REALLY hate u then. I'll be alone forever. Maybe I'll die young. That would be a blessing.
If you dislike skinny people because you're fat, then you're not any better than the skinny people who dislike you because you're fat.
Your ability to self control is clouded by your own negative thoughts. If you choose to eat properly you won't be fat forever.
You are fat because YOU choose to be fat. You can do something about it and lose the weight. I can understand that it does take alot of discipline to commit to it, but ultimately the reason you are overweight is because of yourself.
It's not your fault that your body has an easier time putting on the pounds compared to other people. It's just part of who you are, but that doesn't mean you can't do anything about it.
Make a change, stop having hate for innocent people, and feel good about yourself.
Try to focus on what "successful" means to you - not what your family views as successful. Being comfortable and true to yourself is far more sexy than a girl with no self esteem or prospects (thin or not). Weight should not hold you back from ANYTHING - again, thin or not.
You dislike skinny people because you're fat? -,-
And being fat doesn't mean you can't have self control, that's just an excuse for being overweight and not doing anything about it. (Unless you have some kind of disease or illness).
And you can be fat and have a boyfriend :D
Plenty of fat guys or chubbychasers out there (no offense).
I know this girl who constantly complains about how she is fat and is gaining weight but she eats cake and ice cream constantly and never exercises she says when she gets really fat she will get liposuction and her sister says she will shoot herself when she gets to fat, I still don't understand why it's so damn hard to not eat 6000 calories a day and exercise
Instead of arguing about that, just become skinny yourself. Exert lots of effort and hardwork to have the body you want. After that your perspective will be more positive and in the future you'll just laugh at this post of yours.
Stop calling yourself ugly. The more you say something the more you'll believe it. That being said, if you tell yourself that you're pretty everyday, then you'll believe it. I don't think that you hate skinny people, however, I believe that you hate the positive attention that they get. Although, if you want to do something about your weight then exercising is a good approach. If you learn to love your body then others words won't effect you.
Weight (body size) seems to be once of the last accepted forms of bigotry in westernized society.
People are absolutely CRUEL to people who are "fat". People harass people who are "skinny" too, but it's no where near the level that fat people have to tolerate.
People don't know you. They don't know what you have been through or what you put up with on a daily basis.
Find people in your community who have overcome a weight problem, they will have the best advice for you about how to deal with the haters, the people who think you have no self-control, and how to get your body healthy again despite the constant onslaught of negativity of being fat.
I don't think there are many "fat" people on this site, so you're going to get a lot of negative comments, don't let those comments get to you though. I know you're just hurt and sad and didn't mean to make it look like you hate your skinny family; more like you hate your situation.
No its not normal for you to hate people because you have no self control. Grow the fuck up.
Then why don't you start working out and make an effort to be healthier and lose the weight. You have only yourself to blame. Don't hate skinny girls for being skinny, hate yourself for accepting less (or "more" in this case, lol) than you deserve. I hope you just give up and stay fat forever.
Motivation is key, so get angry already!
So you dislike them because you can't control your weight?!
Envy? Jealousy? That's a silly reason to hate a whole entire group of people.
Some people are thin, because of illness. The same can go for fat people. Don't judge people, before you know the whole story first! If you're that insecure, then hit the gym, go on a diet and learn control.
BMI is BS. It has been proven that you are more healthy if you are slightly overwieght than slightly underwieght.
Fat chicks are hot!