Is it normal to dislike sex?

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Im an 18 year old guy almost 19 and i always felt really conservative about sex and relationships which is why i hate that there is so much slutty behavior in society and i feel guilty about anything sexual. I don't even like getting horny because i feel bad but i do get rid of it myself so i dont end up talking to a girl and having some kind of sex. I don't want kids ever anyways so to me having sex even with protection is extremely risky and i feel having sex with more then 3 people make you a slut. I don't know why i feel this way because im not even religious. I really dislike sex and the one time i did engage in a oral act (i gave a girl oral) for like 2 minutes i felt extremely bad and guilty about and still feel bad about till this day and its been almost 2 months now. Is it normal to feel thid way. I don't know why i do but i feel like sex is kinda wrong and should only be done with one person that you truly like and is serious with and i mean like years of talking to each other and knowing each other.

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  • Mr-Myrtos
    9 years ago

    I though people thinking like this didn't exist anylonger.
    My mum, already dead was far more open than that. At least to give their children a different idea about life.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Naw bro. I still feel like this. I don't want to but i do and i can't just change a mindset over night

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      • Mr-Myrtos
        9 years ago

        In many ways I can understand you: )

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  • victoria85
    9 years ago

    It will feel good and right when you find or marry the right woman.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    9 years ago

    Im the OP but my parents were not strict religious and they jusy told me to wear a condom at like age 16 which is why i don't understand where i got such a view of sex from. I know it destroy lives though from my perspective where someone my age have sex and gets pregnant and their whole lives go down hill. I don't know though.

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    • Shiny_Down
      9 years ago

      I wanna know how you got a girl to let you eat her out! So jealous.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    This is not normal at all or the human race would have died out some time ago.
    Were you raised by extremely religious parents? Everything you posted seems to indicate that your guilt and shame were ingrained upon you by an outside source.
    Sex should be fun, a pleasurable experience to share with another person you care for, but not necessarily with only one person in a lifetime. It really need not be such a big deal, just another level on which one would interact with a friend.

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    Your loss.

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