Is it normal to dislike people for something they do in your dreams?

So every once in a while I'll have a dream in which someone I know, or I'm even friends with in real life. In the dream they are rude to me or they do something that I don't like. After I wake up I'm still angry at the person for the things they did in the dream. This isn't just for a few minutes, but I carry this on for a long time, kind of like a grudge. Is this normal?

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Based on 40 votes (18 yes)
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  • mtnw

    dreams feel real, but they are not. i had a dream where my spouse danced with a naked person. how silly is that. yet i was mad when i woke up. don't hold a grudge.

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  • Tallerico500

    I think it's normal. I do it too sometimes, but I try not to hold a grudge;)

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  • Babyguurl

    * SHOULDNT hold a grudge

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  • 343Boy

    No, it sounds like you're subconscious mind is a jerk who wants to hate people for no reason.

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  • Gidget

    lol my boyfriend woke up one morning glaring at me he dreamed i cheated on him he actually was mad at me it was ridiculous

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  • granola_lola

    I've had this a few times. It's a really difficult one, because the dream feels so real. It's like it really happened.

    I guess you just have to be strong and let it the weird 'dream feeling' subside.

    I've had some dreams where a friend does something wrong by me and I've become suspicious of them. But it doesn't last long. How unfair on them!

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  • AbnormalGuy

    Haha i have that too.. but with me it lasts for about an hour, usually until i see that person at school again and he's all friendly to me and then I think to myself "uhh why do i hate him again?"

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  • christine

    Yes, that is normal because even though it didn't happen it is still real to you.

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  • hotchickie81

    I get like that too... but when I see them in person, I am nice to them and try to forget about the dream, lol.

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  • Babyguurl

    Yeah I'm the same way kind of ,,, like once I had a dream about a guy I like and I dreamt that we were holding each other getting sexual all tht and when I saw him in real life I was very embarrased like I started to blush and everything. I think it's normal because dreams can really real. But I don't think you should hold a grudge against your friends just try to let it go.. :)

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