Is it normal to dislike my friends?

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I recently gave up on trying to hang out with the popular girls because no matter how hard I try they just don't include me so I started hanging out with a new crowd. There are 4 of us (not including me) in our little group and they were always so kind and were interested in the same things as me, I thought they were perfect. But now, I feel like all of them are against me and are talking about me and excluding me from everything. I'm already aware one was talking bad about me and may still be possibly doing it. I don't reveal my true feelings because I know how difficult it is dealing with a close friend who is depressed and/or anxious (which is hard, I don't want them to go through the difficulty I did. No matter what I do, I always bring myself to dislike things about them but I keep my anger inside, but someday I KNOW I will snap. Is this normal..?

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    If you dislike your friends, it's probably because they're not your friends.

    They're just people you follow around because you'd rather not be alone.

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  • LyeByMistake
    9 years ago

    Real friends come naturally, don't try.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    You'll find some people that you will click with eventually. If you don't like someone then you just don't like them, plain and simple. Probably best to move on and meet some other new people. Also those popular girls won't be popular forever. Once high school ends half of them will probably be pregnant, fat, or in some kind of disgusting porn anyways. Just be yourself.

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  • Dr.Moe_Lester
    9 years ago

    "There was four of us. (Not including me.)". What does "us" mean to you, young lady?

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    According to your post this is the second time you've felt excluded by a peer group. I'm curious if they've ever voiced opinions objecting to any behavior of yours? Also you stated that one girl has been talkin about you and I was wondering what she was saying.

    Just curious and trying to help a little.

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  • ThatGirlWhoHatesEveryone
    9 years ago

    Thanks for the advice guys, I really appreciate it.

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  • seakelp
    9 years ago

    Start a club or involve yourself with some organization that does something you're into. Friendships based around shared interests are usually the best ones.

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