Is it normal to dislike fat people

You sound like a shallow, judgmental, holier-than-thou, prick. Fortunately for people who are over-weight they can lose weight. Unfortunately, you are likely stuck with your personality.

Why do people have to be attractive to earn your respect? I think it's you who has a problem, not them.

What about people with eating disorders? People with bulimia can have just as much problems with self control as an overweight person, but will still look thin. Are they really any better? Also, there are studies that have shown that people who do overeat sometimes have certain brain functions that are different than other people's, for instance with the impulse section of the brain. And other times it is depression. But the bottom line is that most people who are overweight are already miserable enough, and they don't need anyone giving them a hard time. Okay, don't date them or even talk to them, but I sure hope you aren't the type who says harsh things to them as they walk by. They might not deserve respect, because respect is something that is earned, by anyone, and overweight people certainly do not deserve any special treatment, but they also DO NOT deserve disrespect. They are human beings, with flaws just like the rest of us, only theirs are on the outside.

Wow your a prick.

I hate these skinny people even though they are uglier then a bigger person saying they are more attractive. I have seen very pretty bigger girls and ugly skinny girls. Just because ur a size 6 doesnt mean ur beautiful nor does being a size 14 mean ur ugly.

I agree that overweight people should try to eat healthier and work out - for their own health. But you know, some people, no matter how hard they try, will never be a "perfect" size 6! And often it's the "fat" ones who are really sweet and will do anything for you. Don't judge them by their size. Though I do agree that they should at least TRY to get in better shape (unless they are physically incapable).

if you want to hate someone hate Bin Laden, abusers, liars and such.. it's annoying if someone is overwieght and complains about it but superficial is judging someone by it.. some eat too much because of stress or whatever. they like to eat like some like to smoke. I don't care what people look like just so they don't smell bad..

:O DONT hate fat people. some people are just fat they cant help it. my mum is big, and she doent eat anything she hates people looking at her and laughing it makes her feel really down, so dont be mean about them, theyre just people like you. shes big because of her pills not eating mcdonalds and may be etting a stomach staple so dont be harsh to people just because theyre big, get a life bitch !

It doesnt matter if you are fat or not they still have feelings. And maybe you should try putting yourself in there shoes. Im sure someone that is fat is judged every day so that just lowers there confidence and self esteem and might make them not want to change. Everybody has feelings so remember that and just cause there fat doesnt mean anything. Most bigger people are nice because they dont judge!

I think that fat people look angry to me. There was a time when I went out shopping with a friend of mine, this fatty came in the same direction as me and bumped me with her trolley. My hip hurt, it was an accident and I just wanted to go so I said 'sorry' and she replied 'bitch'. I was in awe for a second but in the end I gave her one of my disgusted faces, looking up and down, said 'eww' and walked away with my friend.

I was only 12 and it shocked me. My friend was even shocked and she just stared at the woman while we got away. I do agree with you on the topic though, I still try the best to be nice to them.

My sister and I agree with this sort of. I just don't like it when it's too much. And I can't deny the fact that when I saw the fattest man in the world naked and his blackened skin, I gagged. I just don't feel like they're really trying to take care of themselves. It doesn't really bother me when people are chubby, or a little fat... But there really is a limit from a certain disease, to plain just not taking care of yourself. People who are obese admit it themselves. They're that big because they were depressed and didn't get help or denied they had a problem and just kept on treating themselves poorly. However, if they really think they are beautiful the way they are, then more than likely, someone else will. My opinion shouldn't matter nor should anyone elses and they should be happy. You can be chubby and still be healthy, slim and unhealthy, and vice versa. I think that everyone should just take care of themselves and do what makes them happy.

I totally agree with this.

No matter how much people think 'big is beautiful', slim is more beautiful...not to mention healthier.

Fat people deserve to be discriminated against. Fatties have made the choice to express lack of self control, pride and plain laziness in their appearance and it has sod all to do with genetics/thyroid issues.

Get out of my way and stop eating everything you mass of un-necessary lard!!

Yeah.. i personally dislike fat people, but i will not say it, and i will give them i try to be friends... And i won't say aything behind their back. So shouldn't you. But superficial pov on world is so shitty, you will have only superficial friends, and you will be fucked!
Whiel fat ones won't let you go easily, beacause they will be more desperate for friends.. and maybe when they loose weight and you gain, the tables will turn.

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU! I THOUGHT I WAS BEING TO HARSH. THEN I REALIZED THAT ALL FATNESS COMES FROM LAZINESS, NOT GENETICS. IT IS ABSURD FOR AN OVERWEIGHT PERSON TO SAY THAT. PUT THE HO-HO DOWN, AS WELL AS THE COKE, CHEESEBURGER, PIZZA AND CANDY. YOU MIGHT AS WELL EAT A STICK OF BUTTER! EAT VEGGIES AND FRUIT, ITS THEIR FAULT THEY ARE FAT, NO SELF CONTROL. I AM SO SICK OF FAT PEOPLE COMPLAINING AND BLAMING EVERYONE ELSE FOR THE WAY THEY ARE. TAKE A WALK FAT ASS!!!

I totally agree with this.
No matter how much people think 'big is beautiful', slim is more beautiful...not to mention healthier.
Fat people deserve to be discriminated against. Fatties have made the choice to express lack of self control, pride and plain laziness in their appearance and it has sod all to do with genetics/thyroid issues.
Get out of my way and stop eating everything you mass of un-necessary lard!!

I agree with you, hate fat people especially fat people who sit around eating cake while saying "OOHH I'm so fat, poor me," to me. I'm skinny and fit, and look after my health because I apreciate having the ability to walk around without my stomach fat tripping me up! I work at a fast food joint and all you fat people who say "its genetics"...well I see a LOT of fat people in a 4 hour shift...try around 60. It's against nature to look that way, and they clog up the health care system, raising hard worker's taxes while they sit at home because they're too fat to work! However, I'm talking massively OBESE people- not slightly overweight.

You don't sound like a prick as Ollieo said. And that is just mean to call someone that. You didn't use any messed up names to describe what you feel so Ollieo has no right to be so mean. But anyway, I think you're normal. It is what you think. This website should be about opening yourself up not to call people "pricks". As long as you're not fat bashing for sure keep up the mentality. The only reason I say this is because it is self evident they gained so much weight from eating so they can lose it just the same. It is different if you were talking about race or religion or sexual orientation (which I think people can not change) but a person can put down that big mac.

How are you going to make them want to take care of themselves by making them hate themselves, by treating them as less-than-human? Do you think they don't know that they are fat? That they haven't tried to lose weight? Some people simply cannot keep the weight off. Morbid obesity could be a disease, but ignorance is a far worse one.
Also, I am genuinely attracted to chubby people. Like, it's hard for me to be turned on by anyone thin.

I don't like fat people it's all there falt that they are falt!!!! >:(

I don't respect overweight people who are capable of losing weight. They have accepted defeat, and I will always look down on that.

I like tommy81's comments. You can choose a partner based on what you find attractive and it's fine to feel that fat isn't attractive to you. At the same time being judgmental and mean to someone for any reason be it size, race, religion, sexual orientation, etc. is just immature and ignorant. Live and let live.

No name calling here, I myself am over my ideal weight, (275, I am 5'8") my body is in so much pain from disease that I find it very difficult to excercise, maybe just try not to hurt feelings of others. We know when we're fat, don't need to be told ....

You're a despicable waste of human life. We are fat because we WANT TO EAT FOOD. WHAT A BIG CONCEPT! (There are also some people who really CAN'T lose weight because of thyroid problems, etc. too.)

What's up with all the controversy? If some one is fat, you are not helping by spreading around your hate. Now if they are complaining about it, go ahead and tell them to shut up and lose some god damn weight. YOU though, just hate all fat people.

Also, are skinny people not allowed to be attracted to fat people? Do your research before you post something more idiotic than this, please. It will save us the annoyance of your stupidity and lack of factual info. to support your... "opinions".

i am neutral in this. becasue when i read ur post i found myself agreeing with you, but then i read the comments and they swayed me. so i really dont know what to say. i think its totally normal that you would be grossed out because they look so disgusting and that is what they have dont to themselves and dont care. they have no respect for the gift of life and how amasing it is and how lucky they are to be born into a family that can actualyl AFFORD food. but it is kind of judgemental becasue they can be really nice people. just ugly. (:

If it doesn't effect you, let it go. As long as they are happy who are you to judge. **only god can judge me**

Yeah this is your problem, stop hatin and go with the flow, your not fat, so dont make it your problem. This website is for seemingly abnormal thoughts and feelings, if you hate them and dont know why, maybe thats normal, but just hatin is pointless for this site

Deep down, I somewhat agree. I don't disrespect them, but I don't want to surround myself with fat people. I'm supposed to accept them because it's the right thing but I just don't want to be friends with obese people. I treat them with the dignity and respect they deserve but it won't go further than that. Studies even show that obese people are less likely to get jobs. I'm sure being fat sucks and I can't even imagine what it's like. Empathizing is hard because if I was personally obese, I have no clue what I would do. I'm naturally skinny but I eat just as much as a lot of fat people eat and I completely understand how hard it is to control the amount of food that you eat. I seek comfort in food and in general I just LOVE it!

Yeah ive always been pretty skinny so i ve never been in a fat persons shoes. however, i think most of them could lose weight or avoid getting that way in the first place, it is rare that someone has a medical condition that keeps them that way, its usually poor diet and health. Unfortunately once they have become that fat it is incredibly difficult to lose weight becuase fat cells never dissapear and the body naturally wants to sustain itself at its usual weight. I have to admit i wouldnt date someone fat as i dont find them physically appealing but i would befriend a fat person no problems.

i can't stand people saying about being SHALLOW... god xD

anyone who thinks appearance doesn't matter is a fucking twat ;O