Is it normal to dislike fat girls?

I was raised in a skinny family if you gained a little weight they would make fun of you and if they see big people out in the world they would make jokes so I was raised not to like them I meet some but they seem needy and they complain about everything most girls do but I guess I see it different when its a big girl big guys are funny tho and outgoing I think it was the way I was raised but have you ever just disliked a certain body type I feel like they could maintain there weight and get jobs and eat less and smell better I dont try to dislike them but I was just kinda raised that way

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    That is the longest run on sentence that I have seen in weeks. For Pete's sake, learn how to communicate properly.

    1) Take responsibility for your thoughts and actions. "I was raised this way" is a pitiful excuse to be hateful.

    2) Don't assume that being overweight and being jobless have anything to do with each other.

    3) Don't assume that people who are fat got that way because they are lazy and don't take care of themselves. Yes, a lot of them ARE fat because they are lazy and eat poorly but in which universe does anyone have the right to judge someone without knowing anything about them or their lives? Not this one.

    I understand not wanting people to be lazy and not care for themselves but to judge someone's character based off of their body type? Stupid. I'm not exactly attracted to fat women, in fact, some of them do literally nothing for me, but that doesn't give either of us the right to tell them that they deserve to be disliked for their appearance.

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    • anti-hero

      I was gonna say "I guess you came from a non- punctuating family as well." You beat me.

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    • Good God. Not a single comma, period, or break whatsofuckingever. I got a headache reading it.

      Make an attempt at least? Pound on any kind of puntuation symbol as you type or something...

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    • shade_ilmaendu

      Thread done. NeuroNeptunian, kicking ass and taking names. ;)

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    • Ibelievethis

      Good open minded comment. No should put up with nastiness no matter waht they weigh. x

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    • VioletTrees

      You get a gold star!

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  • squeeeshie

    I dislike skinny girls who were raised to not think for themselves and pick apart who they like and dislike for a body type.

    See where I'm going?

    Cut the crap, we're all human. End of story. Tell your family to get a life.

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    • Justsomejerk

      I see what you did there.

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      • thrtonscups

        what do u mean?

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  • Dot123

    Fat girls need loving too. But they gotta pay.

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    • Ibelievethis

      Worked the other way for me. I'm a fat girl and have actually been paid for sex. x

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      • RoseIsabella

        LOL!!! Yeah, that's a thing actually.

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        • Ibelievethis

          L.O.L. I should have paid him really because let's just say "He knew exactly what to do" not only the once but countless times. I'm sure you get the picture! xxx

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    • tehfoxyfire

      LoL

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  • The only time I dislike them is if they're so fat that they can't function properly and it's obviously due to laziness and diet related. Such as when I'm at work, and a massive human who barely fits in the motor chair, and their miniature mammoth children hobble through my line and buy nothing but chips, snack cakes, soda, and frozen processed shit. Enrages me even more when they pull out a food stamp card.

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    • Ibelievethis

      What I or other "Fat" people choose to do with their bodies is no concern of yours. Are you so perfect x

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  • prasatko

    Your personal taste is your personal taste. It would be hypocritical if not impossible to pretend that you can change your personal preferences because of political correctness.
    Still, some people dislike certain body types. There are many harsh jokes and insensitive remarks aimed at small men, skinny men, ultra-skinny girls ("skeleton-like models" and other offensive terms), it would be improbable that fat girls should be the only body type which is not disliked by other people.
    I do not say that fat people should be humiliated or hurt by other people. No way. I just want to say that sometimes the trend can be reversed and there might be this double standard: making fun of skinny people is OK and funny but making fun of obese people is rude. This double standard IS a problem and it should not be accepted by those who defend political correctness when it comes to body shapes.

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  • bamanthehippy

    To dislike them in general is not. To not be attracted to them is. Your family is full of dillholes

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  • flowerchild94

    I'm a chunky girl myself, I think it's fine for you to feel that way if you are okay feeling that way. everyone is entitled to feel however they want to. :)

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  • scumfuck

    wow how does this have 56% of course this is normal ... not saying it's right or wrong

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  • GinnyWeasley

    Double standard much?

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  • EnergyShift

    I'm only physically attracted to skinny girls. I can see beauty in everyone for who they are, I just can't do anything sexual-related with chubby women. I've got plenty of buddies and strangers tell me that I'm too shallo/picky etc., but I like what I like and can't help it. They just tell me "more cushion for the pushin!", and I feel like throwing up a little. There are plenty of guys who love overweight women (some even have a "fat fetish"). That's fine. More power to them. I have a "skinny fetish". Is that so wrong?

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  • Dad

    Thanks for capitalizing your 'I' (a pet hate of mine when reading topic wording like: 'i feel that i want to....') But not much else could be said for your extended paragraph though!

    Actually I feel we all understand your point. Fat chicks don't arouse you sexually. Its just that you needed to word it better.

    To tell you the truth, I'm not into fat women either. Plus my family also made light of their condition (ie Red Alert! Fat girl in highway skirt, quickly abort mission Lol) But then again I think most of us are able to speak their mind more around the family, trusting that others will understand our inappropriate behaviour as joking or making light of a situation. I mean who hasn't been racist or sexist or just down right rude to others just by their appearance, behind closed doors?

    If I said. "No wonder junk foods are so popular, look at that fat chick trying to impress her pimp lover, she'd have to be black and walking a dark street at night for a blind man to think she's hot!".
    Pretty sure I included every inappropriate illegal despicable wording there, BUT to your family this may be all ok. (Lol, I just re-read what I wrote :D).

    Anyway, some people are turned on by 'over weight ladies', not me; but that's just personal choice, my Mom and Dad is not to blame for it :)

    Oh and I like NeuroNeptunian's comment.

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  • flax

    Punctuation....seriously.

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  • I don't like um' either.

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  • (Chocolate)addiction

    I kinda agree with you. I was raised in this type of environment too, so I have this natural dislike for fatter people.
    But I do still have a lot of friends that are fatter and I still adore them, it's just that when they complain about gaining weight while stuffing themselves with a big Mac, it kinda peeves me off.
    Although, I've got to say, I've met some extremely gorgeuous fat girls. Their figure isn't so great, but their faces are model beautiful.

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    • Jake1

      yup, my friend who is GORGEOUS, i mean out of this world, painfully (you'll get self conscious around her) dead sexy had two kids, she's on the fatter side now of course being a new mom but she's still HOT, everywhere we go everyone just stares at her, shes NOT thin anymore either

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  • Ibelievethis

    I may be fat so you wouldn't like me but what gives you any impression that I like you. My weight has never held me back career wize. It has also never got in the way of my love life. x

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  • lufa

    There's a lot of people I don't like including fatties and uglies. We live in a world where anything goes-where people rarely reflect on themselves and realize they need to improve or get out of the gene pool (not breed).

    Instead we have people telling everyone "you're ok, it's everyone else's fault." Look at the animal kingdom, how many fat ugly, diseased tigers do you see out there? Nature eliminates the weaker organisms that cannot compete.

    We humans, we keep kids with downs syndrome, conjoined, the genetically diseased, we allow stupid, poor and fat people to breed like rats and then society is stuck fixing them or taking care of them.

    I blame religion largely for spreading immortality, arrogance and elevating stupidity over intelligence. It's because of religion that society is such a mess.

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    • dreamprison

      You're horrible. Please don't breed.

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