Is it normal to disagree with how other people see you?

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Every boyfriend iv had has told me I'm either hot or beautiful. Even when I go on dates, I get these compliments. I'll be walking around in walmart or the mall, and I'll see guys eyes stare at me and even turn back for a second look occasionaly. The thing is, I look in the mirror and just see... me; Plain old, boring me. Iv always been self consious about how I look. For as long as I can remember, iv always sucked in my gut or felt like shit all day cause I "looked" bad. I mean, I can remember first suckin in my gut in elementary school! Is it normal to think that people are just saying that I look good to make me feel better, even when I don't think I look good but everyone else does, including the creepers at walmart? Lol. Am I crazy or should I start beating sense into my head?

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  • wishmeluck
    13 years ago

    your probably really fit, if you have guys looking at you your not bad at all, i mean i work at jack wills and i dont think im great, but someone obviously does

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Beat some sense into your head girl!

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  • dmichael89
    13 years ago

    I never mentioned I was a girl...

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You are so conceited and a brag. Guys will hit on anyone with tits and legs just to get laid

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  • ruralfrights
    13 years ago

    As a wise friend once told me, "don't believe everything you think!". If guys are taking a second look at you, trust me....they are not looking at how ugly you are. Enjoy being beautiful.

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  • dmichael89
    14 years ago

    Haha thanks guys! And I do crunches hard core! It's finaly nice enough to go running again, too!

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Youre self concious. It's an inside thing and no matte what any guys say you won't believe until you realize it

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  • twixzy
    14 years ago

    Y dont u do crunches to get rid of that gut? Seems like u do a lot of sucking in your gut

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  • uNoRmAl
    14 years ago

    Everyone says I'm pretty and I'm like "how can you say that? Who are you looking at?"

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  • rockerxchick313
    14 years ago

    Same for me. I just hate how i look in the mirror. Almost broke one once.. Everything is the same. But i really hate the way i look. Its normal

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  • AlexandraRuth
    14 years ago

    This is exactly how I feel too..I believe it's normal for most girls to feel like this in one way or another.

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