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Is it normal to desperately need to feel somebody`s dick in your arse

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Well here goes nothing, I am a happily married heterosexual man. I have four children who are all out of the house already and have four grand children.

For the last year or two, i just cannot stop thinking / fantasizing what it will feel like like to have another man first get me to suck his dick, then to fuck me in my arse!

I have tried my wife`s vibrator up my arse whilst masturbating and have found it quite uncomfortable, yet almost pleasurable?

Is there anybody out there that has actually felt this way and carried it through? More importantly how did it feel when you actually got down to it, was it everything you imagined it to be and would you do it again?

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Ace09

9 years ago

Why don't u ask ur wife to fuck u with a dildo?

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- sexysonofsam
  
  9 years ago
  
  I don`t think it will be the same as having a real dick in your arse...
  
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dirtybirdy

9 years ago

Oh, bro no. I hope you thoroughly disinfect her faux schlong before returning it :/

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- donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
  
  9 years ago
  
  http://i.imgur.com/EQ8muWJ.png
  
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  - dirtybirdy
    
    9 years ago
    
    Me and my pogo stick...if it fits, I sits.
    
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- sexysonofsam
  
  9 years ago
  
  Of course i disinfect it, do you honestly think that I would want my missus to get an infection in her pussy?
  
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Avant-Garde

9 years ago

Try anal beads. They're like an alien penis.

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borntobeme

9 years ago

Totally agree with Ginster! Taking a clean cock is incredible. I prefer it missionary so I can look at his eyes as he does me. I feel my 'feminine' side very strongly as I recieve his cum. I have taken most all sizes of cocks and find the normal 5" or 6" and thick to be the most satifying.

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- gloryholeflasher
  
  9 years ago
  
  If and when I try anal with another guy I fantasize about laying on my back with my ass tipped up in the air so far that my ankles are resting on his shoulders as he leans forward and we kiss. It seems so sinsuous to be sucking each others tongue and smearing our lips together and feeling the heat as he's plunging in and out, slowly at first, and then faster and harder as our passion and excitement level intensifies. I don't know why this thought excites me soo much, but if some woman was to walk in on me while I'm "recieving" some guy like this I would have the most powerful orgasm of my life!
  
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ginsters101

9 years ago

Find someone.

Over the years my arse has been fucked by three guys. The first time was incredible, he was not too big - about 6", he used lots of lube, he started slowly - gently pressing his bell end into my arse, then slowly filling me with his full length. He gradually ramped up the speed of his pumping but he was never rough, he came inside me a few stokes after i shot my load. sensational.

its been a long time since a man fucked me, but i would go for it again.

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- sillygirl77
  
  9 years ago
  
  Don't cheat on your wife. If you need that and really want it to come true. Either get her permission for an open marriage and to fuck men OR get a divorce.
  
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  - sexysonofsam
    
    9 years ago
    
    I do not have the inclination to cheat on my wife, personally i feel that if I engage in carnal pleasure with another woman I would be cheating my wife!
    
    Engaging in carnal pleasures with another man (whom I obviously do not love) is another matter altogether and only viewed as a carnal act between two consenting adults.
    
    Please engage with me further if you do not concur with my last statement?
    
    Oh another thing, I love my wife dearly and do not want a divorce. This a sexual thing only, which she for obvious reasons cannot provide me with a solution.
    
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- sexysonofsam
  
  9 years ago
  
  Well thank you for a very concise answer. I would just like to know if you came from him fucking you or did you actually masturbate whilst he fucked you?
  
  Also how were the other two times, you make mention of your first time but neglect to tell about the other two times? As I said in my original post, I have become fixated on getting arse fucked before I die, so it is very important to me to know what I am getting myself into.
  
  Your blatant honesty will be much appreciated.
  
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  - ginsters101
    
    9 years ago
    
    I just came as he fucked me. It was such an intensely sexy evening, it was the first bi experience for both of us - I had never lain naked with another man before.
    
    The other two men were also careful lovers, the second was a bit more forceful but I always felt pleasure rather than pain. Neither were particularly well endowed which is probably a good thing - I have recently started flirting with a guy who has a monster cock and the thought of that is quite scary. So - find someone with an average sized cock and use plenty of lube
    
    The other thing I would say about my second two lovers is that they both fucked me on my back with my legs against their shoulders, it does feel good and is (obviously) much better for kissing.
    
    I hope you find someone, good luck.
    
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    - gloryholeflasher
      
      9 years ago
      
      I have been using vibrators in my ass for years, and I have graduated to a little larger size than what I started with. The idea of a big cock is not scary to me at all. It's very tantalizing, and I think I'm up to it! The position you described is my favorite fantasy position. My ankles on his shoulders, him pushing forward on my legs rolling me sort of onto my shoulders, tipping my ass up and making it more accessable and in line with his driving cock while he leans down and we kiss passionately. Wanna hear and feel his hot sweaty nut sack slapping the crack of my ass while he pounds me!
      
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    - sexysonofsam
      
      9 years ago
      
      Once again thank you for the information. I now am looking forward to it more than ever!
      
      Do you find that your cock remains limp whilst they are fucking you or do you get an erection and play with it?
      
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      - ginsters101
        
        9 years ago
        
        When I am being fucked my cock is rock hard.
        
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gloryholeflasher

9 years ago

I am a happily married man to a wonderful woman, but our sex life lost it's spark because of health issues, and is almost nonexistant. I find myself fantasizing every day about how much pleasure I might get out of sucking another guys cock or having him take me anally.
I use my vibrator regularly, almost every day, and fantasize all the while about it being a real cock attached to another horny guy.
I haven't had anal sex with another guy, yet, but I'm sure I would love it. So, for me I would say it's normal to feel that way!

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- ginsters101
  
  9 years ago
  
  Act on it, it's pretty easy to find a guy who will let you give him a BJ, enjoy his cock and swallow his cum. If you progress to anal use plenty of lube and I am sure you will enjoy it. it makes me cum.
  
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icant_

9 years ago

DAMNIT! I was hoping the title would be 'is it normal to desperately need to fart'
Anyway I never had such an experience and I doubt I will.
Where's your grandchildren? I bet one of them would like to suck their grandpa's dick.
Or you can always meet up with people on sites.

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- Ace09
  
  9 years ago
  
  C'mon dude!Not cool!
  
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  - sexysonofsam
    
    9 years ago
    
    Might not be cool however you not only read my post but also responded!
    
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- sexysonofsam
  
  9 years ago
  
  Now that was just plain nasty, I am not a perverted old man who wants to commit incest with his kinfolk!
  
  Leave my grand children out of the equation.
  
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  - icant_
    
    9 years ago
    
    Oh I am sorry. I read so many incest posts to a point where I now don't think incest is such a big deal for other people anymore.
    
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    - sexysonofsam
      
      9 years ago
      
      You are forgiven for having your mind in the gutter, i know exactly what you mean, there are a LOT of people here who think fucking your mother / father / brother / sister is cool!
      
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