Is it normal to desire a serious relationship over sex

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I'm a 25 year old male and casual sex doesn't interest me and I "fantasize" about meeting the perfect girl and having the perfect relationship over sex. I'm not uninterested in sex, I am a virgin I guess you could say by choice, I've had girlfriends but I think how slow I move in relationships is why they haven't lasted. Is it normal to take a relationship slow like that and feel that way? And while I'm at it I'll say I also strongly feel like it's my responsibility as a man to do certain things such as open car doors for my girl and buy flowers and give them my jacket basically all the little chivalrous corny things like that and thinking of doing these things makes me happy and is what I "fantasize" my relationship will be like.

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Based on 22 votes (19 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    No. You'll be used as a doormat and then thrown aside.

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    • Seahawksdynasty
      7 years ago

      I'm competent enough to realize when I'm being used as a door mat and I don't put up with it, I'll cut that shit off quick.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Right on!

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  • IWillProbablyOnlyUseThisOnce
    7 years ago

    I'm going to be real honest with you because I've had friends that were virgins up until this time, and I've had friends that didn't get their willy wet for long periods of times after college. You. Are. Getting. Older. Ladies your age who are single are expecting to get the dick after a few dates. Any more than that and they're not likely to take you seriously. Don't do this to yourself. Since you didn't find love early on, you're going to have to take a few risks. Also, don't expect a 10/10. Those ones are all taken, or only want dick. If you find a 7/10 who didn't go ape shit after 4 dates without the dick, marry that bitch. Otherwise find a dating website for Virgins or something 'cus at 25, them girls aren't sealed anymore bro. Best of luck. As for whether or not it's normal... yeah dude, it's normal. In high school, and for people who have sexual phobias. Again, best of luck, I'm a one-beaver guy and happy for it.

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  • Goku19
    7 years ago

    You want to open car doors.LOL ! Tell your girl beforehand.

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    • Seahawksdynasty
      7 years ago

      Obviously I mean I'm not gonna make her sit in the car while I get out to open her door and shit but if the situation is right yea I'm gonna open the door for her.

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