Is it normal to delete numbers from your phone if your just friends?

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My boyfriend recently left his email up on laptop on accident (he never does this) and I saw some emails to a girl I don't know. She was writing him from her blackberry when she was at school and it was his day off. The conversation was nothing really but they seemed to be friends. He has never mentioned her to me before though and you usually tell your long term girlfriend about your friends right? I have been feeling a little suspicious of him lately (for other reasons) so I checked his work phone and her number was in there a few times with short call times. So I asked him about it and told him what I did. He said oh its nothing don't worry she just used to bug us at work and she asks computer questions so he calls her back. But he did seem slightly nervous when I asked him about it. I thought it was a little weird that he wasn't offended that I snooped. So I checked his phone again today and her number is deleted from his call logs. Plus he had a missed call last night and there is no record of that anymore either (I didn't see the number). I am I reading too much into this?

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  • jbmitchell999
    14 years ago

    How do you spell "Tiger Woods?"

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  • olizmagicalmojo
    14 years ago

    give the guy a brake you nosey son of a bitch, its obv his trying to get away from you for a change

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    • Teenageguydan
      14 years ago

      i kinda agree... you shouldn't be so nosey... even if your dating. he needs his space too, and you have no right to delete his friends. if you keep going this way he'll break up with you

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    • t7796
      12 years ago

      LMFAO!!! yeah but she has a right to be skeptical

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    • Piximae
      13 years ago

      a bit harsh to put it; i honestly think difernetly but i'm also kinda young; i feel that if he felt guilty and deleted hher number then you shouldn't worry no more (an i knwo how ya feel 'cept my bf did MUCH more than jus call he did have a crush on her an such, but if your bf jus deletes the number an no more contact than dont worry about it)

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  • girrrl
    12 years ago

    I think he's cheating. I have a similar problem with my bf. You have ever right to be skeptical and nosy. He is your bf. If he had nothing to hide he wouldn't delete her stuff from his phone.

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  • so_damn_unpretty
    13 years ago

    dont be harsh on this girl ppl... the first thing she saw was by accident, and only after that (and apparently more) had made her suspicious to the point of snooping. she did tell him what she did after all. the deleting the calls afterwards is not a good sign . very suspicious if you ask me, as is the fact that he had never mentioned her to you. i wouldnt jump to conclusions but id be asking some questions.

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  • syruppp
    13 years ago

    hes cheating on you lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Ur overdoing it like all women you make a drama out of the least thing if he really didnt like you then why would you be his girlfriend he might as well make the other girl his girlfriend

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  • subliminal_mind_fnck
    13 years ago

    Long term girlfriend, yes he should have told you about a friend if she is JUST a friend. Unless you're the uber jelous type he feels like he can't tell anything to you, and in which case prepare to say good-bye eventually anyway.

    Snooping, while normal, no, just no. Take it from a former snooper, you don't snoop and find anything you really WANT to find anyways, even and especially when your suspicions are 100% confirmed in black and white with a backlight.

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  • LiamHale
    13 years ago

    It's good to be cautious, even a little curious, but being paranoid isn't good. Snooping is another thing that isny good for any relationship.

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  • Brooser
    14 years ago

    Nope. Even if they're not "doing" anything, there's no reason for him to be so nervous about someone who's just a friend.

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  • StopThePress
    14 years ago

    Yeah, you are reading too much into this. And I would get offended too, if my BF would sneak into my phone/computer and look at something private, you need to trust him more. The emails had nothing important to say, the calls were short, etc. He's not cheating on you or anything.

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  • WillieWonka
    14 years ago

    It would sound to me that you are going to drive your self crazy and make your self want to think more of it than there actually is. More than likely there is nothing to worry about, and he is simply deleting the numbers not to hide it from you because there is but more so to prevent you from thinking there is. I delete numbers of coworkers and and friends I talk to because my wife is so very jelous it drives me crazy, so I just do it to save her the feelings, and myself the headache of it. If there is something for you to worry about there will be more serious signs. The question you might as yourself is do you trust him, because I personally think Jelousy is mistrust, if you trust him you will not be jelous, I myself am not jelous at all, and trust my wife one-hundred percent, no matter who she is with. wish I could say the same for her because it sucks to feel untrusted.

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