Is it normal to date someone on the internet?

I've dated him for about a year and i really love him and I know he loves me but my friends tell me to get a life and find someone of the computer screen and i don't know what to do

I should move on and get a new boy friend 18
Keep dating him 36
It's not normal 16
It's normal 21
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  • Paradiddle

    I've done it before, 2 times even. I don't really care what society says and I truly had feelings during both relationships. Neither of them lasted but real life relationships don't always last either. I say, if you truly love this guy and the feeling is mutual, keep it up. I don't plan on liking the people I like but it happened and I'm glad I had the experience I did. As long as there are Skype video chats so you know the person is who they say they are and a serious desire to eventually meet up at some point then I don't see any harm.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Ignore your friends and follow your heart. If "true love" can exist offline then why can't it exist online too? Good Luck!

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    Why dont you see him in real life?

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  • disthing

    I think it's perfectly acceptable in this day and age to meet prospective lovers online. However, I think for it to be considered on the same level as an offline relationship in terms of commitment, you'd have to meet in person.

    Prior to meeting in person, or indeed if it's an impossibility to meet, it's a good idea to Skype / webcam with microphones regularly - this at least simulates that face to face interaction and gives you some security that both of you meet each other's expectations, and makes it all the more 'real'.

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  • Annju14

    Thanks :)

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  • NightmareGirl

    If it makes you happy why would it bother your friends? It's your happiness after all, your decision in my opinion C:

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  • Energy

    Yes. My girlfriend lives 3 hours away from me and we haven't seen each other in months. Other than that all my online relationships lasted pretty long, compared to my real life ones. It's easier to date someone online in a sense. You can be as open as you feel comfortable! But the hard part is not actually being with that person....

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  • Terence_the_viking

    When you say you are dating him do you mean in real life or over the internet?

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    • Annju14

      In real life but i only talk to him on the computer

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      • Terence_the_viking

        Don't listen to your friends if that is what makes you happy.

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        • Annju14

          Okay

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