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So, I had this crush and I had started dating him, i had sort of started noticing other guys soon after though, it was really weird because I had a huge crush on the guy i was dating, but i just wasn't as interested while dating him, i'm still with him, but i just don't know what to do!!
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What you are describing is totally normal, because it sounds to me like you finally got to know your crush, and discovered he's not so great, and ya'll don't have much in common.
You love the thrill of the chase! But after the thrill of getting them wears off, youre looking for the next chase. Totally normal. One day you will meet someone who keeps you on your toes and you will look no more.
The infatuation is gone. You have the crush but then you get to know them. It's like you and your BFF. You don't REALLY know them, BUT if you become roommates, you will probably grow to really dislike or even hate them. My point- you don't know someone really from your "crush" distance. But you get close then you realize he's a slob, he plays video games at home, and disrespects his mom. Then you know somebody and decide you want better than him Again.
wow, seems exactly like him, now the final question, should i dump him????
You don't see yourself with him for10 years of even 3. So why stay unless he's hung like a horse. But then what good is a relationship that's built only on penis size, breast size or who can do what to themself for a party trick ? Lol. Move on to someone you can still have a crush on after you are with him for a year. BUT IF YOU want something based only on sex Get back to me. We can communicate other place besides here. lol
Think we all get that. Chase someone, get them, then start to see the real them isn't to our liking. I met a woman one night, it went very well, and we started dating. Sure, the first few weeks were great, the honeymoon period. Then, however, the real her started to come out. The paranoia, mental issues, bad experiences, and being so needy..Made me realize, uh..She's a bit crazy and I want no part of it.
I'd already been looking around and working on a server from the sports bar I went to, so, ended it with crazy woman.
The crazy woman? Hell, no. Couldn't take her erratic behavior, sleeping in the same bed as her 11 year old daughter (the woman, not me), and demands as if we were married. I helped her move a few boxes from storage to her house, and she was speaking in terms of "Where did we put the coffee pot?", and "Which bathroom set should we use?". Had to tell her, do what YOU want..I'm just helping get stuff from point a to point b.