Is it normal to date a younger guy?

I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 14. I have no complaints in any department except his age. Is it normal?!

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36% Normal
Based on 83 votes (30 yes)
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Comments ( 18 )
  • ellaisrad

    He's technically a child and you are an adult. Totally not normal.

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  • normaloralie

    That's ok if that guy u are dateing is mature if not weird

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  • ck38

    Nothing wrong with it. It's 5 years, it's nothing! Other way round I was 14 when I started seeing my boyfriend who was 21 at the time. He respected that I wasn't ready for sex and I lost my virginity to him when I was 17. We have been together for 22 years and have 3 children. I admit my parents were not particularly happy about our friendship until I was about 17 years old. Depends how much you like this guy I suppose. If he's worth it, stick with it.

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  • randomjelly

    Fucking seriously?

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  • rayst

    Noo way too young, maybe if he was 16-17, but 14! Come on!

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  • yogibear70

    Idk what this "fatty" person's problem is. Ignore the close-mindedness. But I agree..I think it's fine. When u think about it.. It's 5 years. So what? But I also agree that sex is a little too risky. Assuming u guys haven't yet. That's a big risk to take. Who knows what could happen if the wrong person found out. I'm not one to tear love apart, but maybe this is the kind of relationship that needs to wait out. He's going to be going to high school and having the drama of that plus puberty and other problems. That alone could tear any relationship apart. But far be it from me to tell you how to love. If you continue, my best wishes. But.. Be careful. Do either of your parents know about this I wonder.

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  • If you were 25 and 30 it would be different because five years can seem larger or smaller depending on your ages

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  • alv1592

    most boys are immature at 14, so you're probably not on the same level. well even if you're immature for your age, it's still illegal.

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  • Tancho

    Not normal.... If you guys were older then fine, but at the end of the day he is a young kid.

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  • keeping_up_with_da_kids

    If a 17 year old man tried to date a 14 year old girl he would be in a bit of trouble.

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  • boehawk

    Not normal . I have a 14yr old son. If a 19 yr old woman tried to date him I 'd give her one warning to gtfo of his life and if she didn't I'd involve the cops . A 14 yr old needs to learn life with their peers and a adult is not a peer to a young teen.

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  • Sweetz

    Peter pan syndrome 0.0

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  • Seriously guys? A simple no is fine. No need for insults

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  • DannyKanes

    Sorry, but in my honest opinion, that's not normal.

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  • :oo heather?

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  • just thought about it and for some reason it seems ok if the guy is like 5+ years older but when it's switched it's kinda weird. huh.

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  • fatty

    Werido! Perv fag creep

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  • xxxMissFitxxx

    Well it's ok as long as you're not bonking or doing anything else sexual because that would make you a paedo.

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