Is it normal to date a guy that's 19 and i'm a 23 year old girl?

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So I started seeing this guy who is younger than me... hes 19 and I'm 23. He turns 20 in a few months. I want to officially start dating him, but I'm afraid of the age gap. He does seem pretty mature for his age to be honest.

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    I think you're overreacting for nothing. You're both legal adults, you can do whatever. Also it's not even that big of an age gap. If you want to date this guy then make the first move.

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  • Aliceee93
    10 years ago

    That age gap is nothing. Go for it if you like him :)

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  • Goomats
    10 years ago

    My BF was 19 when I was 23. It's all good.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I dated a girl about ten years older for awhile.

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      When I was in my 30's I almost exclusively dated men who were 10 years my junior.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Cougar.

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        • RoseIsabella
          10 years ago

          RAWR!

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          • green_boogers
            10 years ago

            ...purr...

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            • RoseIsabella
              10 years ago

              Woof.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    You go, girl!

    Seriously, it's no big deal; go ahead girl.

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    • disthing
      10 years ago

      Did you do the wavy arm gesture and finger click with head shimmy whilst saying "You go, girl!" ?

      Sorta like this:
      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9tvgxjktiLE

      ..From 0:54 seconds onwards.

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        Hahaha... No but I should have.
        ;-)

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  • green_boogers
    10 years ago

    +/- 4 years is the standard age difference that most people use on dating sites. The two of you are very normal. Get comfortable with each other.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    A three to four years age gap is nothing...

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