Is it normal to date a girl of 15?

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Okay, before you judge me and view the subject and instantly deem me some kind of pedophile. please consider the facts before commenting.

I am 20, I am a man, My Girlfriend is 15. She is 16 in a few weeks.
We have been dating for about a month, when I say dating, I mean we have been to the cinema and for walks and picnics.
we decided a few days ago that we would start a relationship, Boyfriend/Girlfriend.

The relationship is affectionate but isnt sexual, although our personalities are perfect for one another, we do not view each other in a sexual way. there has never been any sexual activity between us. we have kissed, that is all.

she has had relationships with younger guys, her own age and all they seem to do is try to use her and exploit her. i
on the otherhand, I have respect for boundrys, I know that sex at her age is iligal and she isnt ready. I like her for who she is, She is a lovely girl and has a great sense of humor, we can be ourselves with each other.
we have a good healthy relationship, we are good friends, we trust each other and she likes my maturity and my sensability, her parents have met me, quized me on my intentions and my life, they are happy with the relationship to continue as they see I am respectfull and sensible.

my question is, Is this normal? can a guy who is a fair bit older date a girl that young, not have sex and have a good relationship? am I doing something wrong? is it imorral?

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  • jesusj
    11 years ago

    Well if her parents say it's okay then it is. Your parents don't have to get into it because you're old enough to make your own decisions and your relationship with her doesn't have to be seen as wrong.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    If you aren't having sex with her yet that's fine, and I can understand that 15 year old boys can be extremely immature... But I do wonder why you aren't more interested in someone your own age?

    Either way it's legal so far, and you seem happy to wait so that's fine. When she's 70 and you're 75 the 5 years won't seem like such a big deal.

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  • Adam26
    8 years ago

    I think it's fine ion friends with a 15 year old I'm 25 we get on so well. We would like to make it more but are scared to, sexually she has done that, lost virginity etc, she has ask firvsex and yes I want to but have said no, it's a tough decision when they are so nature already sexually active

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  • Pepperoni_Sticks
    11 years ago

    If she's a mature 15 year old it's fine. I know at that age I was more mature than my peers and had a thing for slightly older men myself. Since her parents are alright with it it's a win-win situation. Just be careful about the law.

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