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So I just met this girl.... She is 15 Im 19.... I love her she loves me... Is it normal for us to date? Im not planning on having sex until she says she really wants to do it even if she says I have to wait till we get married...
Idk. This is a tricky one. My statutory senses are tingling, but my others say love knows no bounds. However, if u were any older, I'm sure it wouldn't be the cAse. 15 is the age most people lose their virginity, and it's much different if you are more sexually experienced than she is. The laws are to keep people like that, from preying on younger and more ignorant people. But if u guys are on the same level, I don't see a problem with it. Just recognize that it probably ISNT really love. Just. Really strong lust. And you two are probably too young to know the diff. I KNOW. I shrugged shit like that off when I was a teenager too. When my parents would tell me I didn't know what real love was when is get off kilter about some girl. And I didn't realize till just recently that they were absolutely right. Get that, lol my parents were right for once!
Nothing out of the ordinary here, except the fact that you're willing to wait till marriage until you have sex! That's insane. Get yourself laid boy, before you shoot up a school.
@DiamondGirl my country has laws but people rarely follow rules cause the government doesnt actually give a sh*t about a lot of stuff that goes around here...
I wouldn't worry about the age difference. It's only 4 years, that's nothing. As long as you love each other there's nothing wrong with that.
But why do you have to wait with sex until marriage? That's just old-fashioned dumb! As soon as she wants it you should just do it, waiting is bullshit!
You just met her and you really love her? I'll believe you, but don't expect anyone else to avoid being sceptical.
Even if you do love her, she won't be the same person in a few years. People change a lot and quickly when they're young.
EDIT: interesting how this story relates to the one three stories below it on the homepage: http://isitnormal.com/story/i-had-a-relationship-with-a-19-year-old-when-i-was-1415-169943/ It illustrates my point perfectly. She's young, and even if she loves you now who's to say that will last for even a few months?
Love can be fickle when you're 15, so don't invest too much emotionally yourself and don't let her invest too much emotionally either if you care about her.