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Well, I'm not actually cutting my vagina, but the part where all my pubic hair grows, because it's a place where nobody will see, is that normal?
That's gonna look like crap when you're in the stirrups if you ever get pregnant.
How about not cutting yourself anywhere? Good Lord, that's messed up. Were you abused, molested or raped that you do this bullshit to yourself? This is really very sad.
Well, it all depends on your definition of "normal" really. It's rather normal to cut, moreso normal for one to cut in places in which the cuts will not be seen. However, to cut the area known as the "pubis mons" is a little bit of a deviation from normalcy and is generally rooted to some sort of sexual abuse or mistreatment. If that's the case, I do recommend finding someone to talk with about these instances, both the cutting and the abuse. If you just do it because you like to cut, because of the way cutting that particular location feels, as it can feel sexually or otherwise pleasing, or simply because it's out of sight due to the clothes you wear, than it's rather normal and, so long as you're using clean blades and keeping the wound clean, I see no real problem. Enjoy.
Self harm isn't generally considered "normal", no. But realistically, the number of people who engage in it and find it pleasurable or stress relieving is high enough that it might be considered normal. But trust me, it ain't gonna seem worth it if that ever gets infected, and one day you'll regret the scars.
When I was younger, I once did self harm of a somewhat different sort: I'd burn myself, usually on the stomach area which would almost always be covered with a shirt. That ended when I ended up burning myself badly enough that I had a very large, difficult to hide blister on my stomach that eventually ruptured and I had to care for it for months while trying to hide it.
You're just begging for a similar incident. I'd advise that you stop. If you intend to continue, be very careful.
Why would you do this? There must be another reason besides the supposed subtlety of this area. When you think about it, this really isn't an subtle area to cut oneself. It is also very risky. You could get an infection and parts may have to be removed. There's scaring which a potential mate and/or doctor will more than likely see. Questions will more than likely be asked (etc.).