Is it normal to cry like a little baby over an ex?

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I've just broken up with my gf of six years whom I've been so in love with so much. She wanted to be with someone else and are now engaged to be married next year. it's been a month since the break up and I am not taking it well. When I am not occupied by friend for a second, I think about her. When I'm in my apartment, I'm okay then not okay the next minute. I'd be doing something and when the thought of her with someone, or loving someone else, I just start crying like a little baby. I try so hard not to think of her but she was the only girl (out of many girls i've dated) i've deeply fallen for. My world revolved around her and only her. is it normal for a guy to constantly cry over the though of an ex being with someone or loving someone?

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  • afzal_ik
    14 years ago

    dude i can understand your pain of loosing... i been through the same phase, just give time, have faith on God, some miracle may happen, She may come back to you, or you will get a good person who will get you out of your past. So be strong. Wish you good luck, and happiness.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    That is heart breaking. 1 month is not so long. Give yourself a chance and accept your pain & disappointment.

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  • ThatChick28
    11 years ago

    First love is the hardest. And first heartbreak is the worst. Don't worry, it's very normal, for girl or guy.

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  • solidman
    12 years ago

    wow your story is really inspiring you must have suffered a lot its hard to imagen someone you love to love an other person you must have gone througt hell but i think know the only thing to do is try to forget her it wont be easy but i think that is what has to be done maybe youl find someone who really loves you and who will not leave you for somebody else who will make forget about your ex. who will make you treuly happy.

    but i hope you dont mind me asking but how are you know??

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  • sunny_wantsome
    12 years ago

    Time is the Ultimate Ruler my friend.. Just wait and watch. Expect the unexpected, The good times are yet to come

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  • alone4679
    14 years ago

    everyone cries even me

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  • Divine.Infekt
    14 years ago

    Im so sorry for the sadness you have to live through.
    Dont worry, right now its very hard but eventually time will pass, i know 6 years is a very long time, your practically married to the person.
    But I think you deserve a girl who wont leave you for another man. YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT!!
    A good girl will come to you oneday.
    I hope in the near future! Good luck.

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  • Devindd
    14 years ago

    Love is a harsh thing. It will take some time to get over getting your heart broke And after 6 years of being with her and loving her, and she just ripps it apart. I give u kudos for not have already comitted suicide. But u will recover. Take it at your own pace.

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