Is it normal to cry for someone you truly love over and over again?

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There is someone who I really love, and her name is Carla. at first I had just crushes on her, but now I really have developed a true love for her. She knows about it, and doesn't want to be anything more than just best friends. She and I are friends, but today she kinda betrayed me, and I was originally mad about it. Now I can't stop crying about her, for some reason, I really can't stop. I almost never cry, and when I do, it is usually silent, and it is short, and I never cry about it again. Carla is someone who I really love, and when I cry about her, she is like a sword to my heart. She is nice to me, and is very sweet, but she sometimes gives attention to people ( I think) just for fun. I am not sure 100% about who she is, really. I need help here, please. Also, I would like help to win her heart, as she is with someone else now.

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  • asomelord
    11 years ago

    if she doesn't see you that way because of your looks than (pardon my language) fuck that bitch you sound like a great person and she doesn't deserve you. You could try working out more or following the code of chivalry what i'll send you a link to at the end of this comment. anyway i know how you feel man just keep trying and you might prevail and i wish you the best of luck
    Code of chivalry: http://www.middle-ages.org.uk/knights-code-of-chivalry.htm

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  • RentingEmotion
    13 years ago

    Move on and leave her alone. You can't win her heart, I'm sorry but she doesn't see you in that way.

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  • Coolmark95
    13 years ago

    Although not all of your comments were helpful, thanks.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    yes its normal.....i cry over and over and over for someone u love sigh like theres nothing u can do so why not cry crying isnt a crime

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  • ilikecats
    13 years ago

    dont cry & beg for her.

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  • Omega-Claws
    13 years ago

    I agree your going to have to move on and forget about her or just accept her as a friend.

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  • jagged013
    13 years ago

    Normal is a tough thing to quantify...In this situation, I would say that it probably isn't normal to cry whenever you think of the person. That being said, emotions are incredibly tricky; in this case I would say work on distancing yourself from the person. It's going to suck, but eventually you have to make a choice about being happy or keeping that level of closeness. Hope that helps.

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  • Coolmark95
    13 years ago

    Thing is, my Dad abandoned me before I was born, so... I kinda will run into a dead end right there.

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