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i just found out i can never have a child of my own... all i can do is cry i wanted to b a mommy for a long time.. i cant believe this i love my fiance but cant help but feel less of a women not being able to be a mommy!
Sorry to hear that :( just remember theres many children that need adopting.
I can't have my own children either. There are still times that I find myself crying over it... it's not easy. But there are alternatives, like adoption. There are so many children born into this world that don't have the chance to have a parent, or to have one that WANTS them as badly as you want a child. Believe me, I want one too.
The love you have for your kid, even if he/she doesn't come from your womb, cannot be challenged by anything. It's yours, and when you're ready, it will be amazing.
That's what I believe, at least. It helps me when I get down about it. You're no less of a woman at all!
You don't have to have biological children in order to be a mother. A mother is someone who takes care, loves, and nurtures a child unconditionally whether he or she is biologically hers or adopted. So if you want to be a mother, the good thing is that there are alternatives and not just one way of going about this. I personally am planning on adopting a child in the future since i have a strong desire to be a mother but given the fact that there are so many orphaned children in this world in need of a family it doesn't make sense for me to have my own children.
It is normal to cry over this. And yes you can adopt a child but knowing that doesn't make this any easier for you right now. And hearing people say its ok you can always adopt probably does nothing but piss you off. You are grieving. It is ok, normal, and expected. Try to find a support group online with others going through the same thing. You can vent or listen to others and see that it will get better and you will come to some kind of peace with this. I am really sorry.
I hope your fiance will support you through this. It is hard but you are no less of a woman. As many people said, there are other options to being a mother. I really hope everything works out.
Im really sorry to hear that, tho to be honest, I'd like it if i couldn't get children. I'd much rather adopt a child that is in need of a family than to make one of my own. I'm thinking of sterilization actually. I understand if you'd always wanted to have kids you would be sad, but there is nothing but to accept it sadly enough. There are some ways to get pregnant/have kids of your own tho, but because my knowledge of that is very slim, I can't say anything about that :c
It's a difficult thing to accept. I often worry about it, because of an inherited disorder my mum has. If I develop it, the chances are I might not be able to have a child.
But in your case, maybe a find surrogate mother if that's possible? :)
my fiance is so loving! he understands that i feel so sad but with my past and his present we can not adopt a baby!... ill never b able to feel a baby grow inside of me or adopt one and raise any child.... im so sad.... ps i wrote this story had to get new account 2xs... guess ppl think im lieing when i tell them ive been raped!... im tots not lieing!... for me tgis is the 3rd time by a different guy.. i knew every guy that raped me b4they did it... they seemed so nice till they hurt me!...
Why can't you have a child? This is very saddening :{ that while there are people struggling or aren't able to have children..the ones that don't want children are out making babies like nothing, like a popcorn machine...
Be strong. Just because a woman can make babies doesn't mean she's more of a woman. I'm sure you'd make a great mom. You can adopt(as said), become a foster parent, or volunteer at places that involve kids.
I only date women who cant have kids its actually very common and i love it.i find women like you much better than those who get pregnant at any second.