Is it normal to cry because a friend said you annoyed them?

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I have this friend and she is usually really quiet and i can say whatever i like and she wont say anything at all. But last night i simply texted her that i wanted to see her on thursday and saturday. she didnt text back and i didnt think anything of it. but the next day she text me saying she didnt like being told what to do and had a had a go at me. i text back asking what she was on about thinking she would text back saying sorry but she ignored me. i tried to phone her but no answer. i then cried uncontrollbly for a hour straight. i grabbed i knife to slit my wrists but could not go through with it. then i was thinking of ways to kill myself but she text back saying it was ok then i calmed down. is this normal?

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Based on 64 votes (17 yes)
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  • dappled
    13 years ago | pl

    I was watching Star Trek: The Next Generation once and Data didn't understand a colloqialism that someone used. He cocked his head to one side and appeared to be Googling it. Then he came back with full comprehension of what it meant. First of all, he has a positronic brain. Why did it take him two seconds to find this info? Secondly, why does he cock his head when he does it? Thirdly, if this information is in his brain anyway, why isn't it stored alongside the rest of his language data? Fourthly, positronic brain? A positron is an anti-matter electron. His whole head would dematerialise!

    Anyway, I was so incensed at the above that I wrote Gene Roddenberry on a piece of paper, spat on it, and then sat fire to it. Then I took a huge overdose, cut my throat, and jumped off a tall building while simultaneously standing in front of a speeding train, dousing myself in petrol and setting myself alight. But at the last minute, I decided I couldn't go through with it. True, I was burnt to a cinder, falling to earth at an ever-accelerating velocity, bleeding profusely from the neck, dying from my overdose, and about to be hit by a train. But yeah, I couldn't go through with any of that.

    I have to say, I really enjoyed your post which I think should be entitled "How to overreact massively to something which really doesn't matter". I hope you enjoy my reply, which is entitled similarly.

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    • Jen118584
      13 years ago

      I am so intensely in love with you.

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      • dappled
        12 years ago

        You're the only person who has ever had that reaction when I've gone on a rant that is both geeky and hugely sarcastic at the same time. I used to do this a lot but everyone hated it. I might start doing it again, though, just for you. :P

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    emo

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    you have experienced the great heights and depths of emotion with this friendship and so have i from reading the posts. phew what a ride!

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  • unmarkedbeauty
    13 years ago

    You had a massive sook because you lost control of your friend. You tell her what to do because she doesn't seem like she has the self esteem to stand up to you, and she got sick of it and snapped. Normal, grow up.

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    long story short, i felt the same way before. but it's not a good thing to overreact that much. i'm getting better w/ that..hopefully you will too.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    You're completely overreacting, and over something so small too. Why waste your life over something let this? You need to get a grip and some tougher skin, or you won't be able to live in this world.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    You attempted to slash your wrists because your friend was being overreactive?

    I would suggest that this may not be a relationship you want to maintain with them... not if it's going to be this melodramatic.

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  • Hotsuma_Renjou
    13 years ago

    >< dont let them call you lesbo please? ^^
    maybe you just cry becase you love her, as a friend, and you dont want that she falls apart from you... ^^

    but yeah maybe you are in love with her, but actually just reading what you wrote, i dont think so... ^^

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    Dappled = Win and also at OP gtfo you emo

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  • Vyzr
    13 years ago

    Maybe dont say things that might be offensive, after a while people get tired of that and being pushed around. Try to be more caring. Or maybe you're in love with ur friend. If you are uh... Ask if she will let u rape her. And if she says no it might not work out, or take the cliche approach. Read some manga about it. I reccomend manga fox advanced search. Look up a manga about it. Ur probly a lesbo.

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