Is it normal to cry all the time when i cant see my boyfriend?

I have only been with my boyfriend for about four months now and i feel like im becoming obsessed. Not only is it annoying him but its making me physically and emotionally sick. When he makes plans with me then decides he has some other things to do and cant see me i cry almost like someone has died. I feel immature and i have tried changing my ways and even considering breaking up with him because i am so miserable. If he doesnt text me or answer my calls i immediately think hes with another girl. I know that i need to trust him for our relationship to work. I am so sick and tired of worrying and feeling rejected and insecure. I wish i could go a week without seeing him and even turn down his offers to see me sometimes. Several times i have turned my phone off but only to turn it on 20 minutes later to see if hes said anything. Ive had boyfriends before and was never like this. I just want to know that im not alone and that other people have fought through an obsession of some kind and if they have any advice of some kind. I used to see girls like me and think they were crazy, and now ive become one!

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  • DannyKanes

    Oh. My. Goodness.

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  • chicken471bologna

    Why can't I ever find girls like you?

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  • Thereisnogod

    Young and dumb. Wait till your 30 and can't stand being around him

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  • girl1195

    Youre not alone. Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year and i do the exact same things. I dont know what it is, but i always think about the bad things in every situation. When he wants to take me home i feel like he doesnt love me as much. I know this is wrong but i cant help it. I know that im scared to death to lose him, and i think thats why i act like this.

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  • alv1592

    Wow, you need to calm down. I'm sure you have at least one friend or family member you can turn to if he breaks up with you. Don't count on one person to make you happy, because one day if he's not there, you'll have nobody. Your relationship isn't gonna work unless you chill out. Give him some space, and talk to friends and family when he's not around.

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  • joybird

    Please don't let him know you are like this or he will dump you.

    If you are a young teenager then this is just hormones.

    Buy herbal Kalms or get something to help you sleep so you can get through this time and grow up.

    Seriously, get a life and find something to take your mind off him. Otherwise you have nothing new or interesting to talk to him about.

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  • Darkoil

    My ex was like this, completely drove me mad.

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