Is it normal to cry about queen and freddie mercury?

I am an eighteen year old singer/songwriter, (hopefully with places to go) and about two years ago I began to get frustrated with the one dimensional mainstream modern music, I started looking around through the decades for some more decent music (for me-I appreciate that other people have different music tastes).

I started to develop a love for Queen (as well as The Beatles, Bowie, Sparks and Alanis Morrissette etc) but with Queen I have an addiction to their music.

The thing is, I have always been a person who doesn't understand why someone loses it over the actual singer or band- for example being starstruck meeting Jedward or someone) because I base my respect of the artist on my opinion of the music, not the other way around.

Except I have watched concerts of Queen and documentaries and to put it bluntly-I cry. There's no reason I feel to do it, but it's every time and it's something I have never felt before. I am starting to think it's because of Freddie and the fact that he died meaning I will never be able to see him live which for me (as I feel Freddie was one of the most incredible songwriters-with Brian May and John Lennon- and had the greatest stage presence and vocal ability...) is a bit soul destroying. I also think that it has something to do with their legacy, as I went to see 'We Will Rock You' recently and although I wasn't into the characters I just spent the last three songs (in which the audience got very involved in) crying. But is this normal? Because I don't know the reason I am crying, this wave of emotion just rushes through me, and I can't stop myself.

Thank you, I know to me the issue seems a bit pathetic, but I have never reacted so strongly, and I feel really connected to their music (oh god, as cliche as that sounds).

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  • dappled

    I don't know how I missed this post the first time around. We have VERY similar musical tastes. I love Queen and The Beatles and Bowie and I'm quite fond of Miss Morissette also. I don't know anything about Sparks so you've given me something new to listen to there.

    Anyway, to get to the question, yes, it upsets me quite a lot to see certain things. I remember that ten years after Freddie died, they reshowed a tribute concert that had been held for him. George Michael and Lisa Stansfield sang "These Are The Days of our Lives" which has become a bit of a Freddie-tribute. Even today I don't think I'd be able to watch it without breaking down. I'm actually quite upset just thinking about it, to be honest.

    So, yes, it's normal. For me, at least. :)

    P.S. I know you're a user from over a year ago and you'll probably never see this, but just in case you ever come back...

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  • mashkaput

    same, i can totally relate! i've always loved old music such as queen, beatles, bowie, elton john, the who etc and never though most of nowadays music requires no talent or has no meaning (not all of it though). watching freddie and queen perform makes me cry as well because i hate that i missed out on him and that we've lost him so early right before a more or less cure was found to AIDS. it frustrates me that this generation (which i am part of) is so quick to accept stupid people like justin beiber but have no idea what queen even is! it kills me!

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  • Hateful1

    What kind of music do you write? If you identify with Queen then you might like the Violent Femmes.

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  • Hateful1

    Just have to say Roger Waters.

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  • iinfinitron

    Freddie Mercury was one of the most amazing singer/songwriters I have ever seen, and watching videos of his live performances is completely heartbreaking because I will never get to see this amazing man live with his equally amazing band. It is completely normal to cry over him. He was a legend. He was Mr. Fahrenheit.

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  • I'm the same with the band Genesis. Every time I watch one of their live concerts, I know that I'll never get to see them. To begin, they've broken up. Secondly, Phil's lost his drumming capability and his good singing voice so there's no possibility of him returning to the band. Thirdly, tickets are also massively costly and sell fast, so getting tickets is very difficult. And last but not least no one in Genesis wants to really do anything anymore, their long, busy career ended this year. There's next to chance that Genesis will ever tour again. They're just a happy, happy memory. If only I was born during their time.

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