Is it normal to crossdress and feel nervous about judgements?

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I'm a guy who loves to dress up in gorgeous, sexy lingerie. I feel nervous to wear them in public for fears of judgemental people staring in disgust. I realised I love to wear womens clothes since puberty when I tried on my mums sexy bra, which is rather large. I had a fascination of big boobs/bras since then, and picked up the courage to progressively buy my collection of lingerie and other clothes that make me feel sexy.

I have recently did the hardest thing ive ever done which was tell my friends that I did it, and how i was feeling because the rumour had leaked. Generally, I was accepted for who i am which is good but dont feel 100% confident about it round them and wearing them around my friends because i think they are thinking things about me.

I have worn lingerie at work a few times but was nearly caught because the lines showing through my clothes. I want to be able to wear what i want when i want.

Is it normal to feel worried that people are looking at me? Its as though I dont want to be caught but at same time I do want to be?

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  • GreyWulfen
    10 years ago

    Of course it's normal to feel worried.
    But - do what you want!

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    • scotsman85
      10 years ago

      Yeah your right i shouldnt have to please others.

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    • scotsman85
      10 years ago

      Thanks :-)

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  • TheInfamousStranger
    10 years ago

    If I were you I wouldn't give a fuck.

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  • geek_god_101
    6 years ago

    Relax and wear it with confidence. In all honesty, when I started cross-dressing in public, I just strutted out in public as if I had been dressing up like normal. Most people give positive reactions and don't say much. I will admit, I love the attention.

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  • CDmale4fem
    7 years ago

    You said people "stare st you in disgust", why use words that cut to the bone. If you put yourself in a corner and then paint, you kinda brought it on yourself. Now, if people look at you and have attitude face, then thats their problem. Like you, I started cd'n at age 13, but back then I had no social network, no social site asking my mood. I honestly thought I would be the only guy in the world that felt like I did. So many times I would go out in public and so many times I would be worried about bra strap showing, or something tucked in coming untucked and I not knowing as I go about my days. These days, I dont advertise my crossdressing, but I worry less,about something showing. Its just to much to always worry and stress over.

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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago

    Well don't do it if you're so worried

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