Is it normal to crave sex, but hate sex at the same time?...

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I dated a guy that I had been close friends with a while ago. We had eventually had sex, and it was my first time. He dumped me a few weeks later. Now I am left without a trustworthy sexual partner and I am CRAVING sex- and I don't mean just masturbating to orgasm. I mean I am craving physical, intimate contact. But, at the same time, I have begun to absolutely HATE sex and everything surrounding it. I used to view it as beautiful and pure, and now I view it as stupid, disgusting, and just...not good. I used to hold sex on a pedastal, I had it for the first time, and now it has fallen off that pedastal. Now it just...Depresses me. Angers me. Masterbation does not work, and I don't want to just go out and "get laid". I want it to be with someone I'm in love with (like my ex.) And I don't want sex to be the first thing on my mind once I get in the dating market again. I feel like sex has ruined me. I crave it, and yet I hate it. Is this normal? And what do I do?...Serious answers only please, no "I'll tke care of you baby ;)" or any comments like that...I'm serious. This is a serious problem for me that is severely affecting my life.

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  • PumpkinKate
    12 years ago

    I feel exactly like you, OP. Recently caved in and had meaningless sex with a guy- not worth it. I don't really have an answer, it just sucks. Masturbate a lot. Not nearly as good, but better than sacrificing your morals.

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