Is it normal to crave oral as much as i do?

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So here's the thing I've been with my husband for 9 years, married 4. I've gained weight after have two kids. In our relationship I'm the sex addict! Like I want it ALLLLLLL the time! I literally crave his dick! I love sucking dick I'm a pro! I swear! PROBLEM: He has stopped giving oral maybe a few years ago and not just wont do it! Completely, we fight over this subject a lot, it makes me feel like I'm nasty to him and he says no, that's not the case. I'm clean well groomed, I get not everyone like it but damn I'm your wife. You expect me to live like this forever, especially when I LOVE ORAL! You guys I crave it bad, I watch so much lesbian porn, I might explode I masterbate as if I don't have a spouse, I use a vibrating toothbrush on my pussy just to get something but that's getting old, I dream of other women and men eating me all the time. When I see attractive woman I imagine us ficking! I get it he has a low sex drive but my fear is that I want it so bad that I'll cheat! It's getting bad! I love it I want it alllll the time! Maybe holidays, shit something. He's blantly told me he's never doing it. Is it normal to crave other for oral if your being deprived?! Idk maybe it's a dumb question. I know I'm addicted to sex and maybe I crave oral because as a child I experienced early! WITH GIRLS! So yeah idk am I crazy?!

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago | pl

    Stop sucking his dick.

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    • JessMe89
      8 years ago

      I've tried that " the hold out" which was hard because he has a really yummy dock and I'm actually addicted to sucking it but he just says well I don't need my dock sucked!

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      • Arm0se
        8 years ago

        Dock or dick? A dock is something WAY different...

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          Lol Dick

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  • Brendon12
    8 years ago

    I can help you anytime you'd like...

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    • JessMe89
      8 years ago

      Yum

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  • gloryholeflasher
    8 years ago

    My marriage is just the opposite. I used to be the one who nearly always ate her out and she never once did oral on me. She made a feeble attempt twice, but gave up trying because she didn't like it.
    I actually preferred eating to fucking so I would eat her out till she was ready to cum, or often till she had cum once already, then we would fuck, and usually both came together then. When her hips started bothering her a lot so she couldn't get in position, straddling my face while I laid under her eating her pussy, I just lost interest and we quit having sex. I empathize with you but I don't know what the solution is. Any guy that's getting sucked by his woman should be willing to reciprocate.

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    • JessMe89
      8 years ago

      That was a bit of a turn on lol! That sucks sorry to hear that! And I love sucking dick I've done everything I feel uncoils not suck dick, stop having sex. He was deployed for 7 months and on deployment he would feel my head about eating me out then in person go back on his word. I hate it! It should be I scratch your back you scratch mine! But I've told him that too and he's like well I don't need my dick sucked! I hate this!

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  • Diver2
    8 years ago

    I will suck you off because I like you and that is a good enough start. I have a nice cock. 7 inchees and cut.

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  • JessMe89
    8 years ago

    I just want my pussy ate!

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  • [email protected]
    8 years ago

    I constantly crave dick too I suck my boyfriends dick at least 7 or 8 times a day

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  • ShegoxKimObsession
    8 years ago

    I find it normal to want oral if you crave sexual activity. I am addicted to sex but I'd rather give oral than receive. I'd much rather be fucked by my girlfriends' fingers than with her tongue. Just not that interested. But, yes, it is normal to crave oral. However, I strongly advise against cheating if you are happy with him. Bring this subject up again and tell him how you feel. My lesbian partner and I had a similar issue, and we talked it out. (After a few books and DVD cases were thrown at my head). Just bring it up with him and tell him what you told us.

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  • Docholiday
    8 years ago

    As a man that truly enjoys oral it is hard to understand a man that doesn't. You have clearly given him complete control over your sex life. Is there something in particular that makes him loose control ? We always want what we can't have. Women come into there peak later in life so make him as hungry for you as you are for him.

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    • JessMe89
      8 years ago

      That's was deep! I shall try and I think your right! He has total control, and it sucks we sometimes go 3-4 weeks without sex, just because he doesn't want to and I've been turned down by him where I'm like this can't be normal for a man you know! Like come on. For a while we went through this phase where I felt like I was just something he needed to get a quick nut from! Like it was bad! But I know it's me! I gained weight so I know it's me!

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      • Docholiday
        8 years ago

        Personally I attach women that gain weight with selfish or undriven men. I have to cook my butt off to keep weight on a lover. Prolong and tease ; it's healthy for both of you. You know what the end result is so burn more calories before that is achieved. Sex is not a race

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    I assume the base you live on is in the USA? If you were in my part of the world I'd eat you as much as you wanted and love it.

    Can't you find a woman off base? And I'll bet if you did you'd discover you love being on the giving as well as receiving end with a woman

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    • JessMe89
      8 years ago

      I'm actually not in America lol

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        So where then?

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        • JessMe89
          8 years ago

          Japan

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          • Ellenna
            8 years ago

            Hmmmmm long way from where I am, unfortunately

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  • amiloved
    8 years ago

    Set I don't think it is good that he doesn't share the same desires as you deserve the same amount of receiving as giving. So that part makes me feel bad for you though.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Thank you! This just really sucks! And that's good for you! I hope to be married that long!

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      • amiloved
        8 years ago

        Yw and I hope someday you find a hot juicy man that rocks your socks off. A real man should be able to give even if he doesn't receive. I can do that for my man and he can do that for me as well. Of course not all the time. You sound like a man's dream.

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  • amiloved
    8 years ago

    It is normal to have what ever sexual thoughts your comfortable with. Based on what you have said it doesn't surprise me at all about having sexual thoughts and desires especially being deprived. Your only human. And I'm right there with you. I've been married 26 yes and still love giving oral as much as receiving oral. And plenty of other things also. I enjoy new things as well. Even if it might be clumsy at first if it's new I enjoy variety all the way and oral is my favorite. I'm not ever this open to complete strangers I never met but why not. It's natural. Unless your super religious and only believe in creating a new life. Now that I just couldn't imagine.

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  • chained_rage
    8 years ago

    You should invent something

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      A pussy eater...hmmm!

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  • fullhouse
    8 years ago

    If he's not comfortable with it why force? I don't used to like my gf sucking my dick because it's too sensitive for it (I'm not circumscribed) but it worked well Cuz she didn't like sucking as well. I give her oral everything we're intimate as I love giving it n she loves receiving it. So try to talk to him abt it. May be he'll be open to FFM threesome so you're both happy

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  • Rihyae
    8 years ago

    I say you ask if he's open to marriage sex counseling. That or a female friend with benefits (for you).

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    • JessMe89
      8 years ago

      The first part I've tried. Doubt it will happen, second part is hard I live on base people talk, although I just found out about this couple who's husband likes to see his wife have sex with other women, but yeah people talk! Too much!

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