Is it normal to cover for your cousin

well I wanted to know if it is normal to cover for my cousin we used to be so close him and i. But not much any more. But I always lie to my mum and family and say that I just saw him or make up phone calls that I was on the phone to him and stuff and pretend that he was ill.Because she wonders where he has been and why he doesn't come around much any more. because he used to be over heaps. When my dad past away and gran 2 weeks of each I needed him a lot for help and I did not want to be here any more he was sared about what I would do to myself he tried so hard to help me but he was only 14 and i was 15 i think i scared him away under the sircumstances of evverything, i am now 20 turning 21 in December and he is 19 turning 20 in October and things aren't really the same, according to his older sisters they say he still loves and cares for me but won't return my calls or messages, i did this because i didnt want people to think he didnt love me or my family anymore, and this made it look like nothing had ever happened between us. - what should i do?

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Comments ( 7 )
  • Dude97

    I think he is just like ur brother.. And do u cover up for ur brother

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  • YumInsanity

    Bone him, obviously, you could cut the sexual tension between you two in this post with a rusty trombone, and probably should

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  • 0404

    I have done that so meany times it has not really worked out well!
    But thank you any way!

    :D

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  • PrincessRaspy

    You should go to his house and talk to him face to face. And tell him how you feel, and that you want things to go back to normal when you two were close.

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  • 0404

    Yes he is like my brother we are like brother and sister. But things got hard with everything that went on. And I do cover up for my brother my older one I do who is a year and half older then me.

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  • 0404

    And thank you dude97 for your nice and helpful comment it was nice of you so thank you so much!

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  • 0404

    He is my Cousin. Not anything for sex or dating!

    And I thought this was a safe site!

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