Is it normal to constantly get hit on by gay men?

i am a straight 26 year old black male. i have been told i look like the deceased actor lee thompson young. for some reason i have a lot of gay men that hit on me. i remember one time when i was using the bathroom,right. there was this black man in there wearing hip-hop gear. i will just keep it real, a lot of these thug looking men walking around acting tough are gay. a lot of these tough acting guys overcompensate with that "machismo" to hide their gayness. so anyway,i'm in the bathroom stall and when i came out he said "yo man you got some weed on you"? and i told him i don't smoke weed. he starts getting up close to me in my face still asking me if i got some weed and i told him again i don't smoke weed. before i knew it, i started looking down and he was reaching for my zipper and i told him to back up. i walked right out that bathroom and left him looking like a fool.

i don't know,maybe it's my looks or something.i'm 26 but i look like a 15 or 16 year old. i am 5'7 and skinny. i also don't grow much body hair naturally, which may make me look more feminine. yesterday i was on the beach just chillin' laying on top of my towel and a white businessman looking guy walked up to me and sat down and says hi and i say whats up. this man asked me have i ever made love to a man before. i told him no i haven't. he says "will you ever think about making love to a man"? i told him no i don't wanna make love to a man. he said"you know what,back when i was your age i felt the same way but then when i finally did it it wasn't that bad. i say "well that's you,i don't wanna make love to no man,i'm not like that. he says bye and i say yeah bye.

then when i got up i was walking to the bus station and another older white guy approached me. he said "hey how are you?" and i say i'm doing good. this man said he wanted to pay me 80 dollars to give him a blowjob. i said i'm not doing that. he said well i'll pay you 80 dollars to make out with a friend of i mine,i said i'm not doing that. then he says oh well whenever you change your mind i'll be right here on the beach waiting for you. i said i'm not going.

i remember another time this guy came up to me and said "i think you're pretty". why are these men getting so bold? don't be telling me that. i understand they're trying to give a compliment,but a lot of these men take it too far. another time some guy came up to me and gave me his phone number and said "hey man whenever you're bored i just moved in to town and i got the playstation 4 at the house and i have a bunch of games at the house and i don't know how to play them. will you please
come over my house? i'm lonely right now." i said yo man you gonna have to back up. that's why i am very suspicious when a man invites me over to his house. has me thinking you wanna hit it or something. you gay men need to be careful and make sure the man you are approaching is gay because in my old neighborhood a man got killed over some stuff like this. they found his body in the bushes. no, i am not a metro sexual so i'm not sure what it is. i'm starting to feel uncomfortable around other men. especially if they are much taller/bigger than me. i guess i need to start lifting weights and grow a beard/facial hair or something because this is just getting ridiculous. i don't know if a lot of these men were always gay or they just had so much bad luck with women they decided to become gay. i don't know what it is. something must be in the water.