Is it normal to consider once a week too often to see a friend?

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I have a friend who I met through my ex. I love her dearly, think she's a great person and I enjoy her company almost all of the time, no matter what we do.

However, she often seems desperate for company - to me - and has invited me out with her every single week I've been home.
Sometimes I just feel like I need a bit of space from her for a week or so (I've got Aspergers', if that helps at all).

A couple of things that frustrate me a bit is that she is very much a girl in personality in a lot of ways; and I can't get my head around why she might do/say some of the things she does.

She's also very shy and immature when it comes to boys, sex and relationships, in my mind.
I mean, she'll tell a guy she 'likes' him by leaving a bag of chocolates and a note on his doorstep then run away as soon as she's put them there, and she expects the boys to make the first move.

Sorry, rant over.

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    Sometimes spending too much time with a girl can be a bad thing. You should tell her in a polite way that you need some time alone.

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    • BlueAlice
      12 years ago

      I'm a girl, too... does that count?

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      • Shackleford96
        12 years ago

        Oh, my apologies... I meant that sometimes, for a guy, spending too much time with a girl can be a bad thing. But you might still want to tell her that you need some time alone though. In a polite way of course.

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        • BlueAlice
          12 years ago

          Nah, nah, no need for apologies. But that's a fair point you made.

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          • Shackleford96
            12 years ago

            Thank you :)

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  • aceattorneyfan
    12 years ago

    well how old are you?

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    • BlueAlice
      12 years ago

      We're both 23, but we'll turn 24 later in the year (Me next month, her in December).

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