Is it normal to completely obsess about a person you like

69% Normal
8 Comments

my friend does it, and its getting v annoying so i wanted to check if i was insensitive or she was a quack. i mean completely obsessed, copying what she does, staring at her constantly, constantly talking about her, she is always on my friends mind, my friends every action basically is revolved around impressing this girl. my friend would basically do anything for this girls attention and for her 'love', and she doesnt even know my friend likes her. that sounds normal and maybe even cute, but i get constant txts about stupid insignificant daily updates about her... like 'i wanna feel her hair, she looks so pretty' and 'she just signed on msn'... and its not that cute its more stalkerish... i know if this girl would find out, she wouldnt appreciate it and more get scared:S

is this kind of behaiour normal??

Voting Results
69% Normal
Based on 52 votes (36 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 8 )
  • Lockets
    13 years ago

    Is your friend male or female?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • wolflover87
    11 years ago

    normal, especially if you're a girl...but it can be a bad habit so you might want to try to focus on other stuff. :)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Sounds a little stalkerish when it's put into words, but maybe that's what he's thinking and he's just speaking his mind.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • sqwert7889
    13 years ago

    It sounds like his friend is a lesbian

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Lol.
    He's just crushing BIG time. But texting you every time she does something is weird. D:
    Just tell him you don't like knowing every little thing about her.
    Good luck (:

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • southernbarbie16
    13 years ago

    I'm obsessive over a guy I grew up with who is almost 3 years older than me. I get embarrassed that I am, but I just can't stop. I mean, I don't go so far that it's considered stalkerish, but I obsess enough to wonder if it's ok or normal

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i would either tell him to get a life, and for him to finaly say to her that he likes her.

    or tell her yourself that her likes her.
    but no its not normal

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It's normal, a lot of guys do it but I agree that it's extremely annoying if you're friends with that person.
    i think it's KINDA cute and KINDA stalkerish. rofl but he should defs tell her. As a girl, I hate it when guys don't tell me they like me. how are you ever gonna get a girlfriend if they don't even know you like them?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0