Is it normal to completely hate your boyfriend and love him

Is it normal for me to completely hate my boyfriend and not be able to stand looking at him. ? I absolutely can't stand him at one moment and the next moment I will want to be beside him. Is this normal?

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59% Normal
Based on 103 votes (61 yes)
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  • gup

    Yes it's normal. It means that he's done so much to hurt you that you can't let it go. It also means that you should break up with him.

    This is a normal feeling for a relationship that will fail, and it shows that you need to use all your strength to recognise that despite how much you really really love him, he causes you way, way too much pain to continue. Unfortunately, it is quite normal for lots of people to continue relationships like this because it takes a lot to get rid of someone you love so much, but just because it's normal it doesn't mean you should do it. Love yourself enough to let him go.

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  • Destiny***

    Dont listen to these Guys. Yeah its normal to be like That, You just need to try and chill out abit more. Bite your tounge and see what he has to say about the whole thing?

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce

    You sound absolutely psychotic, I feel bad for anybody that has to deal with you.

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  • lovelyfeathers818

    I think its pretty normal. I hate everything about my ex boyfriend, but at the same time I'm head over heals in love with him. I don't get it. Maybe it means that you're not blind to his flaws, that they annoy you, but you love him anyways for it.

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  • almostunreadable

    Definitely not normal, if you are mid-teen then there is hope, but otherwise I have to agree with TheGuruOfTheSauce.

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  • DanB

    I'm gonna assume your a teen, most relationships (including my own back then were like that) just keep in mind that no matter how much you care about him if you can't make it work...it could actually be better off for the two of you to separate.

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  • paradoxinsoxs

    I don't get it either plank...

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