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I love my girlfriend very much, we have been together for 4 years, I'm 20. But I cant resist the urge to flirt with other girls, and if an opportunity arises I go for it. Why? If I'm still in love with my gf? I dont feel bad while I do those things, but only when I get caught do I regret it :/
Okay, I forgot to mention the fact than I'm a girl. This is a lesbian relationship. Whoopsy.
Than you don't love them. If you loved them you would not imagine being with other people. You are comfortable enough to stay with them but you do not love them. So you should probably break up for them before you do try to cheat on them. Its wrong and its dishonest.
Idk chick.. I don't think it's cool at all. I have a girlfriend who I love and one time I flirted with a chick in class and even went as far as letting her put her hand on my thigh and I felt so shitty! It all depends on your moral compass, and it looks like you got yours at the dollar store.
People always throw around the sterotype that lesbians/homosexuals are more promiscuous than heterosexual people but i don't want to get into that offensive crap.
That doesn't sound like love to me.I have been cheated on and it's not cool or okay what's so ever!It really damages the other person as a person.Imagine feeling like you can never trust another person again.That is how damaging it can be for the person that got cheated on.Just giving you an insight on to the other side.
The threat of losing your girlfriend is not strong enough to keep you monogamous.
You're normal, but you're also a cad.
Why does everybody seem to think that if you cheat on someone then you don't love them? Believe it or not, mistakes can be made, and a lot of people don't realise what they've got until it is gone. Some people just cheat without thinking properly, and, while a little thoughtless, it DOES NOT make them bad people.
OP, if you want to keep the relationship together you've got to admit to her what you've done; do it right and she'll forgive you.
As a side note, my cynicism radar would suggest that if we all knew that you were a girl at the start, a lot of people would have been more understanding as opposed to attacking you.
Two years later: I'm not proud of this comment.
Usually I can look at my old comments and they still make sense to me, but this one I can only say I agree with about a third of a most (the first paragraph, to be exact), although even that I only agree with parts of.
The second and last paragraphs do not flatter me as a person, and if someone else wrote them I would probably think they were an arsehole :P
Since you don't. If you truly love someone you live for them. You do not go out of your way to cheat on them and you actually give a shit about how they are feeling. I could never cheat on one of my partners since I would be having that person at the back of my mind. That is not love. At least its not romantic love. I suppose one could love someone as a friend but not partner when you cheat but you do not have a real romantic attachment with them.
You can still love someone and cheat on them. They're not mutually exclusive. Most people who do it do it because they don't think they'll be caught, because they don't want to get caught, because that means risking losing the person they're in a relationship with. That fear is often (not always) because of love.
Its kinda normal because men just work that way, but you shouldn't flirt. Just stare and drool. Of course, when she isn't looking.
Maybe you feel like you want someone else
Like someone new but i still means you love her.
You are a lying asshole and you are lying to yourself. You do not give a shit about your girl. If you did you would stop cheating on her or at least feel bad about it. You obviously do not. She does not mean enough to you. Leave her now with some dignity since she does not realize it. If you are this much of a fucker you do not deserve her at all.