Is it normal to cheat on every guy you've ever been with?

To start, its never been a thought through process when it happens. I've never sat down and seriously thought "Hey, Im gonna cheat on this guy that Im with" Its always just sort of happened one way or another.

We grow apart, dudes a verbally abusive as*hole, a pothead...etc. etc. and so on and so forth, through out my whole romantic history.. and I think that sort of steers me away from whichever current relationship I have when given the opportunity to turn to someone else...?
I dont know... thats why Im here... It isnt like I sleep around with a bunch of people in a month or anything like that.

What normally happens is; I'll be with a guy for so many years... things will go south/turn sour and then I meet someone who understands what Im going through, thinks I deserve better and BAM! ..Im gone...
So if you could please tell me if its seriously just me or... what... even if it isnt normal a response would be gratefully welcomed.
Thanks :)

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Based on 234 votes (64 yes)
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Comments ( 28 )
  • orangesheep

    whore

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  • cherrypassion

    I'm the same too - I think it's something to do with protecting myself from being hurt. So if it turns out they've been cheating on me I can be like well so what, I was hitting this other guy.

    I also find it quite hard to want to sleep with someone and then not.

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  • easymt528

    It seems that you have developed a pattern for finding bad things in a relationship and then begin cheating with the person who will actually listen to your concerns. You are wrong to cheat and should break up with that person if what they are doing bothers you so much.

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  • theProf.

    these issues usually stem from multiple things. one being low self-esteem. subconsciously you believe that these abusive people are all you deserve. sometimes you just dont do your homework enough to get to know this person you are with. other times its a security blanket issue. even though you know you are not happy with your relationship, you don't know how you will react to being in one with someone who would treat you with respect becuase you are afraid that you wont be able to do the same or that he will dislike any traits about you that you find negative. the best thing to do is to get to know urself and love yourself first. you may find yourself picking the right guy or girl following this

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  • BoredGuy

    aint all whores like that? perfectly normal for a whore dont worry :D

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  • Enizzle

    Nah, you're a whore.

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  • Klondike459

    This is your normal. Not normal for everyone. Set your goals higher in men and don't jump the next one who you think 'understands' you. There's a name for that. Sorry, but your question points in that direction.

    Relax and go for a better class of men. Especially when drugs, alcohol and physical or verbal violence is involved. If you do set higher goals, you will find your Prince Charming.

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  • godot

    its normal to find someone new. you should just break up with the current guy before starting something new

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  • ruralfrights

    IT didn't sorta happen...YOU sorta happened. That is, you made a conscious choice to sleep around. Maybe you actually do attract dead-beatbassholes, and maybe by doing so it is easier for you to justify "acting" (not saying you are one) like a slut.

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  • in one year i dated 19 men over lapping each other. after i was single I lost the need for being sexual and moved on. it is not accepted by society, but is mentally normal.

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  • yungathart

    Check your self esteem....be honest with yourself when doing so. Lets get real for just a second, when you got "quimby" you can get anyone, anything. Wars have been fought over the mighty pussy! That penis will get you debt, bills and such but RARELY control over anyone.

    Love concours all!!

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  • violet3

    You seriously need to stop cheating. If you know things aren't working out da way they should, then end da relationship or at least sort it out instead of going behind your bf's back and being a whore -_-

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  • MisfitGirl

    Listen, I do the exact same thing. Only it's not because the dudes are assholes or potheads it's because I don't know what I want. I'll be with someone for not even two weeks and not find anything wrong but i'll meet someone else, say i'm single and hook up with them. No regrets. It's totally normal, tell these guys you cheat on with that it's over before you go and cheat. Cheating is a very hard thing to do, haha. Well for some anyhow, but like, if you feel bad about it then it's usually wrong. My problem is, I feel no sympathy. Hahaa.

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  • BlackSaviour

    i do the same ,only its to every gf ive ever had

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  • QueenB

    First of all it is sick to cheat on anyone, find a decent guy and you wont have to, stop it !

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  • blast_beatz

    But you don't have to cheat. If they are that bad, leave them, but don't be an infidel.

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  • bored1

    im 33 and cheated on every relationship ive had so far. No i dont think its normal, theres seriously something wrong with us!

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  • Valpo22

    If things go south before you cheat... why not break up with the guy before going out with another one? You fall for the old trick in the male pick up lines. "You deserve better!" Blah blah blah!

    They understand that you're thinking of leaving your current boyfriend and play on it! It's just you who falls for it every time!

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  • missnormal88

    SOMETIMES YOU CAN BE ATTRACTED TO THE WRONG KIND OF MEN. IF YOU COMPLAIN TO A MAN, HE WILL IN FACT CLAIM HE'S THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE JUST TO GET THE A WITH YOU. THEN BAM! THAT'S WHEN HE REELS YOU IN. I WAS THE SAME WAY FIND SOMETHING THAT'S REALLY WRONG WITH THIS PERSON B4 U DUMP EM.

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  • madisonedmunds

    all you need is the right guy honestly.

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  • lethal4483

    You sound like a wh0re. Seriously if you're going to cheat on someone, at least break up with them before you do it.

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  • Sometimes it takes a larger learning curve for some people more than others when it comes to learning how to pick a suitable mate.

    Your "cheating" is just a passive-aggressive, and somewhat cowardly, way of breaking up with people you don't want to be with.

    Since it's not socially acceptable to have sex with new people before you have officially broken it off with your current partner, you should at least try to change.

    The next time you date someone who turns out to be less than what you want, break up with them FIRST, then sleep with other people.

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  • Spanky69

    Perfectly normal. You just need to find the right one

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  • Jen118584

    Just because a guy claims to understand you doesn't mean he is right for you. Don't just settle for the next guy that comes along and pays attention to you. So, yes....it is just you. Because you're picking the wrong guys.

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  • You attract or are attracted to the wrong guys - whether they are the ones you are running away from or away to. Take a look at your expectations and clarify them, raise them then make sure the next guy actually meets them.

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  • beka1ici0us

    i do the same thing ... i think i'm just to fussy .. i start pointing out their faults then find someone better so maybe your the same .. to fussy and picky

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    • dinla

      you're a good girl

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  • schutzengel

    I Totally understand what you mean, I have cheated on all of my boyfriends. Even if I love them so much! I cant help it, it is like my nature to try something(someone) I think is sexy or good looking to me.

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