Is it normal to cheat

I've been with my girlfriend for 5yrs and am starting to want to cheat on her with men and women, is this normal?

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26% Normal
Based on 90 votes (23 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • starkitty

    don't. do. it.
    i'll. find. you.

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  • pixie_dust

    does she know ur bisexual?

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  • SMILEifyourstupid

    Is it normal? Perhaps. Is it right? HELL NO. It's a shame that cheating (in my opinion) is becoming more common or more socially acceptable, sure a bunch of people may cheat, but that doesn't mean it's right. If you really want to cheat, then do her a favor and end the relationship.

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  • ImmahKitteh

    Cheating is wrong :\

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  • Solophonic

    Phillustein, how could you possibly think that after 5 years someone won't be hurt if they are cheated on?

    I make it doubly so, cheaters should face two firing squads that don't aim for a quick death.

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  • SweetSherry

    Tell her the truth about your feelings don't just break up with her using a lame excuse tell her you're attracted to guys and you want to have sex with one you never know maybe she'll allow you to explore your sexuality and for you to see if its just a phase its highly unlikely though I can't imagine her saying "ok hon go ahead and bang dudes and I'll be here waiting for you" at the end of the day it all comes down to you being happy

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  • phillustine

    I think it's normal to doubt; that is, to think/fantasise about cheating. Whether you do something about it or not is a different question methinks. For instance: I have cheated. IIN? However, it is an inalieable truth that cheating will likely cause her a lot of pain, but then again maybe not. I don't know the girl. You know better than any of us.

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  • Layla32

    Tell her the truth.If you lie and cheat the one cheated on always finds out.I have been cheated on and it doesn't feel good.I lost trust and that takes a long and painful road to go through.I still have issues.Why would you want to be responsible of damaging someone?Break up with her before you do anything with another person.

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  • dappled

    If you can't see yourself staying faithful, be honest with her. Ask her whether you can be allowed to sleep with others. She may want to do the same. If she's horrified, then this may signify the end of the relationship, but at least you've given her respect enough to have been honest. After five years, that's the bare minimum she deserves.

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  • Normal? yes Right? no. If you want to cheat then why are you in a relationship? just break it off with your partner and then find the new person/people you want to go with.

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  • MrsBailey9

    Don't do anything before you leave the one you are with first. Being cheated on hurts like nothing you've ever known... It is the right thing to do if you are thinking about wanting to be with other people. 5 years is a long time to be with one person, you have a lot invested, please don't hurt that person anymore than necessary. It's bad enough that it's over, don't totally destroy them by "test driving" other people first to see what you like before making your final decision.

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  • SwimBikeRun

    Agreed. Just break up with her.

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  • Solophonic

    You have no idea what the pain of being cheated on feels like. If you're not satisfied then break up instead of cheating. And I totally agree, cheaters should face a firing squad.

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  • Mr-Time

    Break up with her first if you feel the desire to "swing". Its not fair on her and those that do cheat should face a firing squad.

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  • 1776

    fuck you dont cheat ever what is wrong just leave you fckn stupid

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  • icy

    Iam probale the same as you , Iam pansexual but I haven't found any one yet I would say that you haven't found the right person in stead of cheating break up with her

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