Is it normal to broke up because of his sister?

I had been living with my boyfriend for two years and i think we were in love and most of all went pretty well. My boyfriend and his sister haven't seen each other for 10 years. Strange things started happening after she came to our house...they could walk on the street holding each other, he could hug and touch her in intimate parts of her body. She became all world for him. He even went to Victoria Secret to buy underwear with her. I decided to talk to him about that strange affectionate relationships, but with no results, all he did is threatened me two times. First he asked me if I know that he has a knife in his pocket and second time was when he showed me the card and commented that it can cut between my fingers. After that we broke up... I have so many questions about what happened but my general question is How his tender feelings to his sister could bring aggressiveness to me (his girlfriend)? Thank you.

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  • okayokay

    good thing you broke up with him. he sounds scary, threatening you. it's like you made him feel guilty,thats why he lashed out. they were totally incest! creepy!

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  • I don't think it was his girlfriend but a girl he wanted you to think was hit girlfriend. Truth is, he just became bored with you and looked elsewhere.

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  • Jen118584

    I don't know how to answer that question but I'm really glad you broke up with him because he honestly sounds like a psycho. That's just fucked up.

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    • 666-way-of-loveing-you

      he is a creep

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      • Vanman

        most defiunately a creep, he has obviously had a sexual relationship with his sister and while thats not a big issue in my mind hes being violent and mean to you so get out while you can

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  • Avant-Garde

    O_O

    1. They're having a incestuous relationship.
    2. He's a fucking psycho.

    I'm glad you had sense to get away from the both of them. Don't ever get back in a relationship with him and good luck!

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  • TheTodd11

    Wow this is fucking weird!!!!

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  • Kacey

    You're kidding right? You have to know this isn't normal. I agree....Not his sister

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  • IveGotBallsOfSteal

    A story of two psychos. One psycho in love with his sister and willing to do anything to get his PSYCHO (COMPLETELY OUT OF TOUCH WITH REALITY) girlfriend out of the way. You're asking the wrong question.

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  • He has an incestuous relationship with his sister, and threatens you with bodily harm?!?! Thank god his tender feelings for his sister hadn't become feelings for your children, had you 2 had any!!!

    What you are describing is monstrous and thankfully you got out. Now go get counseling or anything that equips you with creep alert radar because there had to have been signs of this guys bizarre and violent behaviour before this - a time when you thought you were in love.

    And if that sister is a child for goodness sake call child protection & the police.

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  • LemonCheese123

    This sounds a bit like this thing I read over a year ago now in a magazine, and it had a website, so I went to the website. If two siblings grow up without ever seeing each other, or not seeing each other for a very long time, they can actually become a bit confused because they can be so alike (physically, mentally etc...), and they can actually start to form a relationship with each other.

    The story I read, there was this lady with kids and a husband, and his husband knew he had a sister, but he'd never met her, and had been searching online for her for many, many years. Soon enough, he found her and they met up, but he wanted to go alone for the first time (which is understandable), but then he started seeing her more and more often, and all of these times, he wanted to go alone. In the end, his wife found something on his phone/PC (can't remember which), and turns out they'd been sleeping together. In the end, they'd planned to run away together, which, his sister also had a husband and kids. But when he went to run away with his sister, his sister had ditched him and he came crawling back to his wife, but she wouldn't take him back.

    But either way, I'm glad you got out of the relationship. You need to find someone you can truly trust, who you know won't hurt you. You deserve so much better. (:

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  • Beatnik23

    That's beyond weird.

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